Love, cohabitation and marriage have become commonplace in modern society as a mode of emotional development. The couple in the unmarried before living together to try to marry can indeed enter the state of preparedness in advance, so that both sides early grinding to adapt. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
1. Make sure both people have equal responsibility
Since two people have decided to live together, there must be a clear division of responsibilities, rather than putting everything on one person, which creates an unbalanced relationship that can easily sow conflict later and does not ensure that both parties This creates an unbalanced relationship that can easily lead to future conflicts and does not ensure the simultaneous and healthy growth of both parties. For example, when it comes to household chores, it is best for the two people to have a reasonable division of labor, with each person responsible for a portion of the labor, so that both parties have a sense of participation in building the family, which is the way to get along harmoniously and is more conducive to the future development of their relationship.
2. Compromise or insist
Two people are not together yet. When two people are not together, maybe everything about the other person is good in your eyes. But once two people live together, you will find that there will always be some flies around your head in life to make you crazy: toothpaste to use up with your hands, the faucet is not tightly screwed, open the juice in the refrigerator but forget to drink …… seems to rely on your persistent supervision to ensure the normal maintenance of family order, while the other party will The other person will think you are nagging. Therefore, you must be prepared whether you intend to stick around and fight a protracted war, or for peace you come to compromise.