The Japanese media previously published a psychological study that said men are more innocent than women think. Most men are powerless against the very obvious “pretentious woman”. Why is this so? Japanese website livedoor published an article on April 14 analyzing the reasons why men are attracted to “pretentious women”, and readers were introduced to 3 key words that give a glimpse into men’s psychology. Let’s take a look!
The man interviewed described a phenomenon around him: “The girl I’ve been feeling really good about lately is a very obvious ‘pretentious girl. There is a kind of workplace idol feeling. In the eyes of other female colleagues, the girl will pretend to be cute and very good to men, she can not produce a good feeling, but she is very popular in the men’s side. First of all, she has a very so-called ‘service spirit’, very good at judging the atmosphere, can read the eyes. And if she is with her will be very pleasant, but also can set themselves off. There is also the fact that it is generally easy to get a date with a woman who is a do-it-yourselfer, and men feel better about it.” In the above words, there are 3 key words in the reasons why men are attracted to “pretentious women”:
1, service spirit
Do-it-yourself girls are popular with men because of their exuberant service spirit. Women’s eyes see such girls as cute as a weapon and so generate disgust, while do-gooder girls themselves win by showing cute smiles to men.
2, happy together
The do-gooder knows how to pleasing men, so it can be fun to be with a girl like that. Just by flirting frivolously, joking with each other or whatever, you can make a man fall in love. This is very important and can determine whether a woman is popular or not.
3. Easily agree to a date
Do-it-yourself women are more likely to agree to dating. Even if they refuse, they will answer more smoothly without hurting each other. The woman who likes to be flattered and loves sweet talk in particular looks very organic in the eyes of men and is therefore popular with them.