Two people from the initial heartbeat to hand in hand into the marriage, the repair of the “fruit” is certainly hard to come by, but the greater test is still ahead. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you are getting into.
Stage 1: The Passion Period
The Passion Period is mainly the newlywed period The sweetness of the pre-newlywed period, sometimes even more than the love period, is a time of excitement and curiosity about marriage, and interest and intimacy fill the couple’s lives. In the year after marriage, love is the focus of life. But many people don’t convert some of their ideas, such as after marriage, it’s no longer “I”, it’s “we” that comes to mind first, and it’s time for couples to bond with each other and develop common habits.
Stage 2: The bonding period
One to two years after marriage, the initial enthusiasm is wearing off. The initial enthusiasm is draining away little by little, and the shift in roles after marriage makes disappointment and conflict the theme of this stage. The couple will gradually discover that the other person is not perfect, or even completely different from the one they knew before marriage. The other party’s flaws and habits may leave you at a loss, but since you have chosen to face the future together, you should learn to deal with these problems, break those unrealistic fantasies, respect each other more and think about each other, in order to lay a solid foundation for the future is to stay together.
Stage 3: The rebellious period
The conflict between the two people may intensify in the three to four years after marriage. intensify in the three to four years after marriage. The couple may argue a lot and one partner may even develop a tendency to have an affair, causing both partners to begin to doubt their loyalty to each other. This is a time when it is important not to give up on your relationship and not to look for new love. Mutual respect and understanding will surely help you survive this difficult period.
Stage 4: Collaboration
This is the time when the children become the focus of your family. The first thing you need to do is to make sure that you have the best possible chance of success. But a busy life can make your love dwindle a little, so even if you are too busy to do anything, don’t forget to occasionally relive the romance you had when you were in love and express the love in your heart.
Stage 5: Reunification
The children are getting older and more aware. The company’s family has also become very solid, this time you love has quietly transformed into affection, two people get along with a lot less quarrels, more understanding and humility, this time, you have walked together through the course of marriage fifteen years. The years are starting to leave their mark on you, so for the sake of health, two people don’t forget to do more exercise together, family trips and picnics can make your marriage and family more beautiful and happy.
Stage 6: Crisis Period
Twenty years after marriage, the perils of marriage come with it. You may experience some major changes in your life, such as the illness or death of your parents, career bottlenecks, etc. A cloud of misfortune begins to hang over the family. In the face of some sudden changes and difficulties in life, the couple needs to face together, mutual comfort and support, in order to help you walk through the gloom. It is then that your relationship can be as rock solid.
Stage 7: The Perfect Period
After a total of The marriage building phase is over and you have gotten to know each other completely. The first time I saw you, I was able to get to know you.
True love is tolerance, sacrifice, suffering together, mutual support, and never leaving. True love may be due to a heartbeat, but it must be accompanied by the presence of something spiritual that is higher than feelings and desires – a sense of the sanctity and responsibility of love, that is, the faith of love.