Maintaining good interpersonal relationships requires at least understanding and respect, and if you want to deal with people close to you, you have to add tolerance, consideration and thoughtfulness, and if it’s your mother-in-law, you have to add a “filial piety”. “
I. Be filial to your mother-in-law and put yourself in her shoes
Every A mother-in-law wants her daughter-in-law to be filial to her, so you must treat your mother-in-law as your own mother from your heart, ask her more about how to make your husband’s favorite dishes; send her some small seasonal gifts on her birthday and New Year’s Day; take note of what she likes to eat and buy it back from time to time to give her a surprise, so that she can feel your love for her precious son and let her think from the bottom of her heart that you treat She thinks from the bottom of her heart that you treat her as your own mother to honor. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Two, respect your mother-in-law and give her a smile
You need to know Although your mother-in-law did not raise you, she raised your husband with great pain and suffering. Since you love your husband, you have to understand how a son feels about his mother, and you have to respect his mother with him. Many mothers-in-law have a parental taste and like to educate their daughters-in-law, if you do not like to hear it, just pretend not to hear, do not argue with your mother-in-law fiercely, and do not give your mother-in-law a cold face, so that your husband is embarrassed not to say that your mother-in-law will also think you do not understand, you will also be angry. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Three, understand your mother-in-law and listen to her chatter
Senior citizens The way many young daughters-in-law treat their mothers-in-law is to respect and stay away, but we are all under the same roof, so can you afford to hide? Everyone has an old age, not to mention she is still your favorite husband’s mother, so you have to understand the mind of your mother-in-law, nothing to chat with your mother-in-law, let her chatter a few words in front of you, listen to her talk about raising her son is not easy, the son grows up little by little. In the process of your listening you also have to echo: “Mom, it’s really not easy for you, we will definitely be filial to you.” You want her to feel that you and she are close.
Fourth, be considerate of your mother-in-law and care more about her life
Treat mother-in-law, you must be considerate. When you buy something for your own mother, you must remember to buy one for your mother-in-law as well. It’s okay, care more about your mother-in-law’s daily life, see if she’s cold or hot? Ask her what she wants to eat? What do you want to do? No matter if you are sincere or not, you still have to do it superficially, and know that the words that come out of your mouth, your mother-in-law often cares a lot. Most mothers-in-law want their sons to live happily ever after, and will not be willing to spend a lot of your money, while a little bit of your care and attention she will take to heart.
V. Be considerate of your mother-in-law’s feelings
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Six, tolerate your mother-in-law, and accommodate her faults
When you step into the door of this home, you and your mother-in-law become a family. Not only you, but many daughters-in-law think that their mother-in-law treats them as outsiders and always speculate, accuse or abuse them in their hearts for no reason, all treating their mother-in-law as an ingrate or even an enemy. When we stand on the sidelines, we will find that those bad mother-in-law-daughter-in-law relationship, both mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are at fault, in fact, people and people get along, if they are prone to conflicts, easily aggravated by the lack of tolerance, so that naturally it is easy to make a big deal out of small things and intensify the conflict. In reality, there will always be small frictions between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law living together, occasionally an unpleasant word, a thing that makes you unhappy, the past will pass, do not always hang on the heart. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.