What do women usually do when it comes to their ex-boyfriends? It should not be uncommon to complain about complaints. A relationship often ends for a reason, the two sides are the existence of friction, happened very unpleasant things, do not get along to separate. Plus our closest people around us are usually harsher than other ordinary relationships, look at the vertical and horizontal do not look good, complaining about complaints simply become a must. Short time to do so can vent, but a long time to continue, only to hurt themselves. Because he is part of you.
One is that counting him out is really counting yourself out.
Lovers are an inseparable part of each other’s lives, and even if for whatever reason they can’t take their hands and grow old with their sons, they can’t erase that fact. When you are with each other, it means that you are agreeable to each other.
No matter what the reason is, counting his wrong and bad is actually an admission that you’re looking at the wrong person and admitting that it was a mistake to be together in the first place. It also wipes out all the sweetness and happiness of the beginning.
Is the relationship worthless? Of course not. Every relationship is happy and sweet before it has a beginning. Furthermore, whether it is the beginning or the end, it is decided by two people together. So, women, please be merciful with your mouth and spare him and yourself.
Second, let yourself continue to be immersed in the relationship.
The bright side has separated, but your mouth is all about him and your heart is about him, but the two are no longer in a relationship, so it’s even more anger and heartbreak to remember. So greater complaints and counting. This creates a vicious circle.
This kind of counting and complaining doesn’t do you any good, it makes you dwell on your feelings for him even after you’ve separated from him, so how can you start a new relationship?
Now that you’ve separated, you’ve drawn a break between the two of you, and no matter what’s bad or good about him, seal and pack it all together. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Three, there may be obstacles to a new relationship.
Maybe just as you’re expressing your indignation and resentment with chatter, maybe there’s a man around you long ago who’s glad you’re back to being single. He is building up momentum, but heard you full of mouth full of ex-boyfriend. The company’s main focus is on the development of a new product.
Even as a passionate suitor, he’ll be secretly heartbroken. Doubt that you are no better than your ex, or that your actions and words are suggesting that your heart is still in your ex-boyfriend? Uncertainty is a true reflection of him. Maybe after a while he won’t be as attentive.
Usually men don’t stick around for more than three months to pursue an unresponsive woman, and don’t get the idea that a romance novel stalker is going to happen to you, because the odds of something fictional happening in life are pretty slim.
Maybe he’s the one you’ve been looking forward to for a long time, and if you miss out because you’re complaining about your ex, it’s not even enough to express your frustration.
Don’t complain about your ex-boyfriend, don’t complain about your ex-boyfriend, so what should you do about it? Is it feasible to reminisce? Can we see each other again and also be friends? Of course you can, but this is only after you really let go. The fact that we are pretending to be friends and being ambiguous is an invisible disservice to each other when we are not out of the shadow of our relationship.
Why do you say that? If you once loved this person deeply, and he was once an integral part of your life, how do you go about switching roles so that you can see him as a friend as if nothing had happened? This is difficult for most people to do, I’m afraid.
If you say you will keep in touch after the breakup, it only means that one party has not really let go of the other party, and he does not want to disappear from the other party’s life completely, so he will find all kinds of seemingly grand reasons to approach the other party. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to its customers.
After the initial heartbreak, the wounds begin to heal, are you moved to remember how good he was, the ex-boyfriend if it is broken up to keep in touch, can you accept every time he appears when you are ready to accept a new relationship, so you do not have a new one yourself Feelings, so it is recommended or not to contact, because time smoothed out after leaving are his good, really sad are with time past. In essence, it’s dragging on.
Assuming that both parties have made new love after the breakup, and you are still friends with your old love, what does the new lover’s psyche think. The new love will be the one who thinks that you and the old love is coupled together? The new love is bound to be dissatisfied in mind, more afraid of pulling and pulling in a diagonal relationship to get. Although there are some examples of peace and quiet, but these stories can not help but hear a touch of embarrassment. When you see an old lover, how can you forget the days when you walked together with him? The story of the man who was the first to be born in the United States is a very important one.
If you look at your former lover, who was kissing and happy with someone else, is your heart really that balanced? People are dignified, why do you need to find your own suffering? It’s better to get out of your misery early, seal it in your heart, miss it, or throw it away and live your life again which is the wise thing to do!
If you think he still has the need to exist in your memory, then cherish it, and if all he ever brought you was hurt, then be brave and throw it all away and live your life now, some memories will bring happiness, but some will only make us suffer. Please make the right choice for happiness!
Think of him as someone from a previous life, you loved him, he loved you, but it was in a previous life, you have your life now, it’s normal if you can’t forget, because you have memories from a previous life, and you are not a heartless person. But you can’t live with a “ghost” anymore.
An ex can be a vermilion mole in a woman’s heart, but now that it’s a mole, it means the relationship is frozen and can’t be restored or moved on. It’s best to move on and find your own new feelings and live your life well. If you can’t let go for the time being, then it’s best to pretend you’ve let go and stay away from places that are full of memories to avoid repeatedly being in the tangle of this relationship after it’s over.