Women often criticize men are always different before and after marriage, but women are the same, before marriage, style, understanding, smart and hardworking, charmed men dizzy, after marriage, unkempt, unreasonable, delicious and lazy, heady, so that men The women, after marriage, should pay attention to three points, do not force your husband to run outside.
It is said that men before and after marriage are like two people, in fact, women are the same, the woman in love will always pay extra attention to their image, as far as possible to hide all their bad habits and bad habits, but married is not the same, she began to gradually reveal their own nature, because The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to the market.
First, she is no longer interested in her marriage and her enthusiasm has plummeted.
Everyone likes love to be lasting and doesn’t desire it to turn into affection once they are married. The romance and memories that are unique to love are very precious. Marriage for love, if only a formality, after marriage enthusiasm does not diminish, then love in the marriage, then can continue to heat up. Then two people can go farther.
Women still have to love themselves and continue to show their beautiful side, pleasing a man is actually a very simple thing, making him happy is half the battle. If you can also add a little romance to your life, then life will be more tasty.
Second, not being able to give yourself an accurate position in time after marriage.
Marriage means a change in roles, and first you need to attach a “wife” role to yourself, which means you need to take some responsibility for the marriage
Also, you need to attach a “daughter-in-law” role to yourself, because once you become a wife, your in-laws’ thinking immediately changes to you being your own family, and your own family will naturally have its own “demands”. The “requirements” of the family, the family will naturally have their own family style. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Third, expose yourself to all your flaws and stop being a homemaker.
Every man likes his wife to be virtuous at heart and wants to enjoy the warmth of his home when he comes home. Love of housework doesn’t mean that you have to take full responsibility for it, but at least the house has to be clean, right?
The occasional mess may not be a problem, but if it goes on for a long time, even friends are embarrassed to bring it back, it will inevitably become a major conflict trigger for the relationship as well. In addition, women must not control their mouth. The woman talk a lot, talkative, will cause the man’s rebellious psychology, too much blame and no nutritious words, are not conducive to the maintenance and development of two people’s feelings.
In fact, men should understand these changes in women, because people have inertia, when she becomes lazy, you can say a few beautiful words to coax her, when she is depressed, with your man’s unique bravado and passion to infect her, when her shortcomings are exposed The first thing you should do is learn to accept it and tell yourself that no one is perfect.