If you meet a man who loves you very much, it is a very happy thing for a woman. But inexplicably, you think a very small thing, such as complaining about his family relatives and friends, maybe he will burst into a rage. Do you think he doesn’t love you anymore? Do you feel aggrieved? The reason for this is that you don’t think about his feelings while enjoying his love, and you’ve touched his scales.
Xiali loves to show her love in front of her friends and feels lucky to have found a man who loves her so much. Although very grateful, but her boyfriend’s love also let her have a small temper, can not help but play a small capricious in front of her boyfriend, he still good-natured tolerance. She felt very sweet when she looked back on it afterwards.
Once the two went to her boyfriend’s house, her boyfriend’s mother said that such a woman is petulant. A woman is to put a man at ease, to keep the house in order and to serve her in-laws. This statement made Xia Li very unhappy, could not help but complain to the boyfriend a few words, also said, your mother how so ah. The boyfriend never made a sound, and when Charley took a look, her boyfriend’s face was as black as the bottom of a pot, and she was startled.
Afterwards, her boyfriend seemed a little cold to her, and Charley felt very aggrieved that he didn’t love her anymore. And just a few words to that?
Perhaps what happened to Charley is more or less something we’ve encountered in our lives, where one thing that seems small to you can turn a man off. The most important reason is that women like to take things for granted in the midst of love.
Usually many women think about the kind of man they will meet. When you are with your boyfriend, you will also imagine your future life. This is the expectation of a better life, but if you only think about yourself and want the other person to join you in the construction of your beautiful dream, without any regard for the man’s ideas nor his feelings, then, even if he loves you more, the relationship between the two is also hidden in danger.
To love someone is to put yourself in their shoes. Just like no one likes to hear people speak badly about their parents and berate themselves loudly in front of outsiders, you don’t like it, men hate it even more. No matter how much you love the woman, he will not feel good in his heart. In the long run, the relationship between the two will unknowingly turn faint.
Is it a woman’s fault that this is caused by a woman taking things for granted? Of course it is. The woman also feels very aggrieved, obviously his family said so is not right ah, can not I say? This involves the method, you can be polite, some roundabout, do not take straightforwardness as an advantage. Also for the man to think more, get along with the details, do not just enjoy his love for you, I believe that as long as the two communicate more, you do for him, he will certainly see in the eyes. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
There is a common phenomenon in life called ‘flip-flopping’, not because men are grumpy, but because you have moved his dead center. Not all men have the courage to divorce, when there is no capital to mention the divorce of the man because the wife frequently touches his dead center, the man will act on the wife deliberately indifferent or escape. For this reason, as a wife, must know what the man’s dead center is, do not easily touch, the man will be grateful to you for life.
Dead center one, don’t call frequently when a man is social to urge him to come home
The man social basically revolves around two links, one link is to make pavement for the career, a link is to make pavement for relaxation, for this reason, the man socially, frequently received the wife to urge the phone, the man knows is concerned, but in front of his friends is very lost model. A smart man will report to his wife in advance before socializing, and a smart woman will send a greeting text message when her husband returns late.
Dead end #2: Don’t break the sand when a man is upset
Men don’t like to talk when they are upset, but prefer absolute silence. However, women in curiosity and concern, often in the man irritable time, like to break the sand pot to the end, so that not only can not really care about the effect, but will make the man more upset, usually with a couple of quarrels and end. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Dead center three, don’t poke holes in men’s flaws or embarrassing stories in front of friends and family
Everyone has a comical past and their own shortcomings, the reason why they are not defensive in front of their families is because men do not feel the need to pretend in front of their families, but in front of outsiders, men will occasionally public face to fill the fat, at this time, as a wife, do not expose the man’s true, not to mention do not feel their husband hypocrisy, because living in a ‘dog’s eye view
Dead end four, don’t force a man to linger when he is physically tired
Men are not as horny as women, but men are definitely more eager to have sex than women, but men sometimes present the phenomenon of having more than enough energy, and when a man is so tired of being alive that he doesn’t even want to talk, as a wife, please don’t stir up brutality to force a man to make love, not only is it easy to be rejected by men, but it is possible that this will force women to say ‘you are useless The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Dead spot five, don’t talk about his parents and siblings too often in front of the man
Dead spot five, don’t talk about his parents and siblings too often in front of the man
A man can occasionally nag his parents or sisters and brothers for not giving a damn, but as a wife don’t cater to, let alone initiate, what his parents and sisters and brothers are not. The new family will be much lighter with the establishment of a new family, but at the critical moment, the affection will erupt again to make the power of the immeasurable. The new family will be a lot less likely to be able to take advantage of the new family.
Dead center six, don’t go through men’s pockets and snoop on men’s phones too often
The man’s pockets are usually filled with cell phones, pocket money, cigarettes, lighters, even so, women should not easily touch the man’s pockets, because in the man’s view, the man’s pockets represent dignity and trust, women frequently check the man’s pockets is equivalent to tearing the man’s dignity and destroy the trust between the couple. Men’s cell phones will have some seemingly ambiguous, in fact, but not ambiguous text messages, women’s snooping, will add to their own blockage, but also make men feel that is unreasonable. Dare I ask, if a man is cheating, you can stop it by looking at his phone text messages?
It’s hard to be a woman, and even harder to be a smart woman. Two people together were originally stumbling around, but don’t be sarcastic, don’t be hurtful, and mindfulness is the hard truth.