It must be very warm and sweet as a woman to hear all the promises or sweet words from your other half. Are you thinking in your heart at this moment: you are really so happy. If you have been immersed in this happiness, have been waiting, in the end, but found that the sweetness of the man’s promise, it is likely to be an empty. At this point the only thing left is heartbreak. So, for men’s promises or sweet words, women, you need to keep your sanity. Do not believe it easily.
Is it that men are used to taking lies as promises? Not necessarily every man is like this. There are several kinds of men’s commitment. Let’s break it down by type.
1.He means it when he promises, but doesn’t take it seriously afterwards
This is the kind of problem most men have. For example, a trip at the end of the year, a nice shopping trip with you or a romantic anniversary. But at the end of the day it won’t happen. Women usually get angry and get upset, but in these small things, as long as the man is not too much, they will eventually compromise.
Compromising on the little things in life is a form of tolerance. If it’s a marriage, or something principled about family, etc., we don’t recommend just lollygagging over it. The seriousness of the treatment, or to be serious to treat. You can’t justify it by forgetting or not taking it seriously
2; text-align:left;”>This kind of man you can’t say he is lying to you. For example, when two people are in love, the man said, to buy a house as a wedding house. But in the end, for various reasons, there is not enough money to buy a house. In fact, he was sincere when he promised, and tried to do it afterwards, and could not do it due to the actual situation.
You can’t blame men for this situation. Everyone has a lot of things they want to do, but, not everything we can do. Two people together, even if there is no this wedding house, two people do not leave each other, sweet and sweet, is not also a kind of beautiful?
3. You don’t mean it when you promise, and you don’t even think about making it happen
This mostly happens to people like playboys and lovebirds. They know very well the killing power of sweet words for women. And talk about it, it does not take much effort at all, but also to get the hearts of the good people, why not do it? The women who like these popular lovers have to suffer these pains while enjoying the pleasure they bring.
There is another kind of woman who loves to hear it so much that she has to force the man to say it. It also does not exclude that some men are said to do, for most men are not sincere commitment is of course just talk.
This situation can not be blamed on the man, the woman herself should also reflect on a man to the actual performance of action, do not have to force him to say these useless words, anyway, he will use the actual action to do, you want his commitment is not ultimately to his actions to
There are also promises that you know are lies and full of loopholes as soon as you hear them. When you get caught up in it, the authorities will be addicted to the romance unstoppable and not even notice. As women, always be awake and alert, we need to act, let’s come together to expose those men’s lies.
Lie #1: “Give me some time, I will break up with her as soon as possible, don’t worry, you are my favorite, I will stay with you.”
Behind these seemingly lovey-dovey words are actually lies. These lies wear a flashy coat, so many women friends can’t tell the difference between true and false. He had said he would divorce his wife and then marry his own.
She waited silently, thinking that the man truly loved him, but after waiting for long years, the man would still put himself off with various excuses. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Lie #2: “We can’t be together now, and we won’t be in the future, but I will cherish your piece of heart for me.”
A person’s true feelings flow without any purpose, he only wants to express his truest feelings and let you know he loves you. When he appears to you as a third party and wants to snatch you to himself, then his purpose is particularly strong. If one day, you really become his girlfriend, he got you as he wanted, then his performance may let you down. You will find that almost everything he said when he was courting you before was a lie. Saying that only you are enough and that nothing matters is a lie that people who understand will know at a glance.
Love is not very pure anymore, it has too many things mixed in it, otherwise there wouldn’t be so many infatuated lovers to break up. There are a lot of things that are important, and it may just be a leaf inside that you can’t see for a while.
Lie #3: “As long as you’re with me, nothing else matters,” the boy says to the girl.
The man who tells lies is rich in imagination that travels through time and space, and how can he treat the cherished life of today when he cannot bring his dreams into reality now and in the future? The company’s main goal is to provide a better solution to the problem.
Women seek perfect love, preferring to enjoy the fleeting moments of a fleeting moment, rather than to endure a little bit of the mundane minutiae of firewood and salt. O man who loves to lie! The woman is worshipped as a fairy, and you are married to what? How can the charm of the earthly world disappear in the ordinary dull marriage? The first thing you need to do is to get a good look at the woman’s face.
A silly woman would say, “Love for him naturally includes his flaws, his lies, too. ?” But the days and months, time can prove everything, and true love can accommodate how many of these feelings with a false mask the most damaging lies are usually unmasked. They won’t make you ache in a short time, but they will never bring that look-through surprise in your lifetime either!
Between lovers, sweet talk is a necessary spice. Since it is stated to be a condiment, it means that it is not the main food and is not in the first place. If the other person’s promise sounds beautiful and makes you happy. It’s also good to hear more to make yourself feel good.
But remember, don’t fantasize that he’s going to deliver on every promise, and don’t expect him to always do what he says he’s going to do. Just like we all have many things we want to do, most of them usually don’t come true due to subjective or objective reasons. The same is true of a man’s promises. There is always nothing wrong with keeping your head above water and living each day to the fullest.