Some couples, who seem to be at peace with each other on the surface, are slowly building resentment in silence. Such a marriage is not only physically and mentally exhausting, but may also make love perish, at the cost of a broken family. What can be done about such a low-temperature marriage instead? Here’s a case study to learn how to solve it and reap the benefits of happiness!
Nana, the wife’s best friend, often comes to our house to complain to her wife that her marriage is now like a puddle of stagnant water, without a ripple. She hasn’t sat down with her husband for a quiet meal, watched TV, shopped, or talked for a long time, and he seems to be caring less and less about her.
In the past, she thought her husband had another woman on the outside, but after observing him for a while, she didn’t find any traces and ruled out the possibility. In the past, the two also moved to quarrel; now, the two evolved from quarrel to cold war, although living under one roof, but the marriage is left with no love of the empty shell. She was torn and couldn’t figure out what the problem was.
In fact, Nana’s marriage has fallen into “hypothermia”. The so-called “low-temperature marriage”, that is, the husband and wife do not fight, do not fight, do not communicate with each other, do not care about each other, emotional indifference, just to maintain the marriage and live under the same roof. “The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
“Low-temperature marriage” is a weak state in marriage. This weakness causes the two people to ignore each other’s needs and each has its own space. The division of tangible space inadvertently lowers the temperature of the marriage until both people have lost interest and passion for it.
“Low-temperature marriage” is an invisible killer of a harmonious marriage and makes people unhappy in it. The most important thing is that you can find a way to “heat up” your relationship when it is “cold”.
The best way to “heat up” your marriage is to take a fresh look at it and find the time to talk and communicate seriously with your lover. The best way to get the most out of your marriage is to take a fresh look at your marriage and find time to seriously communicate with your lover.
Another good way to activate your marriage is by changing yourself, i.e. by “changing and warming up” to find common interests with your lover and reach a tacit understanding.
In fact, any family must go through the process of pre-teaming, climaxing, smoothing, dulling, heating up, and repairing, just like a newly purchased lathe, which should be polished, waxed, and repaired, and without timely care and maintenance, there will be unsafe problems arise.
Love is a river, if you want to flow from youth to twilight, from a momentary heartbeat to a lifetime of sweetness and suffering, you must find a way to keep your marriage from “hypothermia. “The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.