Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are natural enemies? How do men square up with their mothers and wives?
One, Andy Lau holds his daughter to meet his parents to expose the problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law
Earlier, the media photographed Andy Lau going out with his daughter in his arms. It is reported that the daughter of Andy Lau was photographed because Andy Lau is deeply involved in the mother-in-law problem, his parents are old and want the market to meet their granddaughter, but Andy Lau’s family of three live in seclusion even Andy Lau’s parents have to report to Andy Lau to enter. The parents of Andy Lau and the Maranatha Zhu Liqian have a serious cultural gap, and since the birth of their daughter, Andy Lau is deeply involved in the problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is difficult to extricate themselves. In order to alleviate the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, Andy Lau had to hold his daughter to meet his parents, so he happened to be met by paparazzi. It seems to be true that Andy Lau is deeply involved in the problems of his mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
How Men Can Settle Their Moms and Wives
Mother-in-Law Conflict The “King of Heaven” is not immune to such traditional family problems. The man who is the middleman, how to set up the mother and wife, to resolve the conflict between the two women?
1.1. Use your role as a fair judge
Mothers love their sons, and wives love their husbands, and both love deeply and selflessly. Therefore, the man’s words carry a lot of weight in the minds of both mothers and wives. When the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law disagree on something, the man should come out and even out. The time to even out the impartiality. For example, if the mother-in-law thinks the daughter-in-law is wearing too much fashion, the husband should say that his wife is working and socializing. Secretly then tell your wife to dress for the occasion. In short, many of them are trivial matters, men just need to step forward in time, a few kind words will defuse the conflict.
2. Shift the conflict to yourself
For example, the mother-in-law When you dislike your daughter-in-law for being lazy and not doing the laundry and dishes, men should take the initiative to come out and do the housework, or say that because they put their clothes in a mess and eat too slowly resulting in their wives not doing it. Another example is that if the mother-in-law thinks the food tastes too light, the man should come out and say it’s because he is not well and wants his wife to make it lighter.
3. Pleasing both sides with beautiful lies
In In the relationship between in-laws and daughters-in-law, men must be eight-faced. Sometimes, when the wife complains about her mother-in-law being too nagging at the pillow, the man might as well pretend to echo the sentiment. When you’re with your mother, she says your wife is not a hard worker, so you might as well “hmm, hmm” a few times. In this way, it will make the mother feel that you are as good as ever to her, and the wife will feel that you are the best to her. This way, at least psychologically speaking, a woman’s natural jealousy will be eliminated in the invisible.
4. Use every opportunity to persuade peace
When your wife buys your mother When the wife buys a piece of clothing for the mother, you should not lose the opportunity to praise the wife in front of the old mother filial piety and understanding. The actual fact is that you can find a lot of people who are not able to get a good deal on a lot of things. This way persistently, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will become better and better. When the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law like mother and daughter, the man will be left out. However, this being left out is also a great happiness.
5. Filter negative information
Backstage, the wife will say The mother’s not, the mother will say the wife’s not. These words must be instantly forgotten by the man and never told to the other party again. These negative messages must be filtered out in the man for the family to be more pure and harmonious.