When you want your husband to love you and spoil you, you first need the woman herself to be worth it. You have to change not married before some of their own fault, such as before marriage you will be capricious command, but after marriage you have to converge their temper; in your incessant nagging he does not understand you, please also occasionally quiet down to listen to him… To be a good wife, a wife who deserves to be put in her husband’s heart to love, here are a few suggestions given below that perhaps you should read, and I hope they will help you.
1. Companionship
A woman spent the first 16 years of her marriage All day long she was busy taking care of her family, but she always felt she was lacking something. One day, she realized that she and her husband didn’t have any common hobbies. She realized that she had neglected to spend time with her husband. So, like her husband, she looked forward to every game; she also drew the game times on the TV newspaper. Soon, she and her husband were enjoying the games together, no longer sitting alone. She felt she had more and more to do in order to be with her husband.
2. Good understanding
A female stenographer who types was unusually slow and made frequent errors, yet she was not fired by her boss. One of the main reasons she was left behind was her extraordinary temper, like a joyful angel who could make the whole office “full of sunshine”. She was able to shield the entire office from all the whining, complaining, and blaming as long as she was there.
3. Learn to listen
When a man is excited to talk, you sit quietly and listen to him. When you sit quietly across from a man while he’s talking excitedly, that’s not “listening”. “Listening” is an active behavior, the meaning is interaction and communication. The qualified “listener” should not only be attentive, but also actively involved, and it is not disrespectful to interject from the side from time to time, but to be ready to ask questions, especially valuable ones.
4.Never give orders
Some strong women often neglect to give orders when dealing with men they love. When faced with men of their choice, they often neglect that they are women and are too busy showing off their talents to resist giving orders to men, resulting in the regrettable loss of a good marriage. Until one day, when these women began to admit defeat, and some awakening, change the way of dealing with people, to “little woman” attitude to let men appreciate, and finally “to make things right”. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
5. Don’t put yourself down
A woman who always considers all men to be the enemy, must consider herself a victim of the world, it will be difficult to establish friendship and intimacy with the opposite sex. So, to build good relationships with the opposite sex, including your husband, you must first be proud of your female identity. Women need to joyfully accept their gender, because this acceptance is not only a healthy human attitude, it is a sign of a mature woman.
6. Be Yourself
The basic principle of a mature life is “Be yourself.” Women who do not believe this and want to fascinate or conquer men by changing their appearance, such as using brand-name cosmetics, wearing brand-name fashions, changing fashionable hairstyles frequently, etc.. In fact, men are not that stupid, they do not evaluate the opposite sex based on their appearance. The most important thing is that you have to take off the “package” early and show your true self to men.
7. Adapt to his impulses
There is a man who loves to vacation. One afternoon, he called his wife, “Honey, please hurry up and pack your bags, we’re going on vacation to Bermuda tomorrow.” The clever wife immediately stuffed her pajamas into her suitcase; sent her pet parrot to a neighbor’s house to be boarded; and called friends and family to cancel various appointments. Early the next morning, the couple caught the early ferry to Bermuda together. Many men are willing to act on an idea as soon as it comes to them. So by adapting early to a man’s changing moods, or even impulses, you can steadily capture his heart.