Don’t think that fighting between couples is a very bad thing, in fact, sometimes couples fighting is the seasoning of life, but this seasoning should also be in the right amount when you put it. The first thing you need to do is to know certain techniques to have a healthy fight, and not to fight indiscriminately, which is likely to escalate the conflict, so let’s take a look at the details below.
The skill of arguing is not to argue indiscriminately
There is a skill of arguing. Wang Hao also brought “how to use” to the people listening to the lecture.
First of all, don’t rehash old scores and talk about things. This is a good way to get the most out of your life, not to mention that the conflict is getting bigger and bigger. Secondly, see the good, quarrel don’t chase the fierce fight. You won the quarrel no one to give you a certificate, lost may not be shameful. If, for example, you keep quarreling, “the other party will feel that they have no value, even in this family, the affair sprouted at this time.” When you fight, give each other a step down and see it through.
Couples fighting forbidden words
“You’re not as good looking, you’re not as good at making money ……”
“Your family is from the countryside.”
“Your family taught you these stinky habits.”
“Look at your shabby look”
Two Forbidden Zones
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No arguing about the indisputable, no family of origin.
Don’t argue in front of your kids.
Those who don’t fight are not good couples either
Professor Wang Hao thinks Zhang
Professor Wang Hao believes that Mr. Zhang’s case is more serious and suggests that the couple seek professional adjustment together.
“Couples who fight every day must have problems.” According to Wang Hao, “A couple that doesn’t quarrel may not be a model couple.” Wang Hao explained that quarreling is a way to communicate ideas and emotions to each other, which is much better than not giving any statement in a cold war.
What’s the benefit of arguing? Wang Hao said, is that you tell each other that you are angry and have emotions. And cold war is the biggest ordeal and pain between couples. In a quarrel, the other party gives you a reaction, it shows that he cares about you and tries to come to listen to understand you, “not to give a reaction you will be anxious instead.” Wang Hao said the quarrel is a channel for couples to communicate, do not think of the quarrel are too negative things.