There are many women who are asking, “Why doesn’t he love me even though I’m so good to him?” This is because being nice to the extreme is also a constant tightening of the rope. And when you love to put yourself in an extremely low position, but farther away from him. A wise woman learns to let go at the right time.
It seems to be an instinct for a woman to fight for love, to give everything for that man, but it’s often not quite what she wants. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to its customers. There are countless stories like this in history.
From a woman’s point of view, there are two reasons why this happens: one, you love the wrong person. The second is to love him in the wrong way.
Love the wrong person, which may seem easy to understand, is to say that the person is a negative person. But essentially, there are very few absolute bad people. Most people are influenced by their environment and upbringing, and before they met you, they formed this character, which is also known as the values view of life.
When it comes to what women want from love, fidelity is certainly at the top of the list. But for men, is fidelity one of the principles of love? Not necessarily. Now we are practicing monogamy, but that doesn’t mean everyone agrees. The traditional culture believes that the red sleeve is a literary affair that can be proudly shown off to everyone. The emergence of this concept is related to the traditional social culture. Today’s society and culture are very different from the past, but this concept of appreciating and having a woman who is fat and thin, some men agree. So, before giving for him, find out if the man is worth it.
The second reason is to love him in the wrong way. When it comes to this, many women may reflexively recoil, I have given so much and worked so hard, why do I have to be blamed? Although it is splashing cold water, we also have to say that it may still be true that you are wrong.
Everyone likes to be treated in about the same way, but those different details are what distinguish each person’s different existence. Like he likes to drink ice water, you have to give hot water, even if it is added what the mountain of food, he still does not like. If he likes warm water, and you give him boiling water, he may frown and not drink it, and if he leaves it for a while, he feels thirsty and has no other water to drink when he picks it up but feels just right.
The former is thoroughly the wrong way to go about it, to get along in a different way that makes him comfortable and you comfortable. The latter, in addition to the way, also involves timing. A cup of hot water is brought up, and the person drinking it wants the temperature of the warm water, and the timing has to be right. Maybe you’re good too, just in the encounter is, he doesn’t need it anymore.
Even if you were so good to him that you could go down in history as useless, that is, a song of your own extinction, sobbing and lamenting to the point where onlookers are moved, but just the man you love won’t look back and can’t help but be bored. Do you know what boredom is? It is this sentence: you say is wrong, not to say is wrong, you cry is wrong, not to cry is wrong, you live is wrong, is dead is also wrong. And you, to love is pain, not to love is pain, to go is pain, not to go is pain, to know is pain, not to know is also pain.
Women who are good to men are sometimes losers in the love field, but those who are vain, calculating, powerful, with a careful eye, moving to hurt men’s hearts, seem to be able to hold on to men’s hearts for a long time. Why? The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to its customers.
And some other women are not willing to let men cry, so they have to cry themselves. The best for men that a woman is only suitable for nostalgia, the worse the downfall was nostalgic the more profound, such words to hear are chilling, not to mention those who happened to be.
But for a man who has failed himself, what is the use of his point of nostalgia? Even if a wisp of incense floats into a deep old dream, you can’t always be the dreamer after all. So many people feel that grabbing some realistic benefits seems more reliable than loving the man himself, so many people also appreciate that love is too fragile, even if you love to nothing, the ending may not be a happy one.
Women yell that there is no good man, good men are also men can not be without a little bit of inferiority, not to mention that he does not love you, who sad? The man shouted no good woman, good women are you hurt to crawl, the rest is not those who “ate a rift” has “grown a wisdom”, who deserved it?
It is useless to be nice to a man, it is important for him to love you, to be nice to you first, and then you to him. If you love and do not love, it is our helplessness, unwillingness and can not stay. If there was never true love, it is our gambling loss, and it is useless to disobey.
There is no humble love in this world, seemingly humble but because it loves you too much, in the final turn into the wordless, no fulfillment, no resentment, no blessing, only a bleak look, drifting in the wind…
In fact, it’s the men who are cheap, the more they love him the more they don’t want to cherish, the tighter they chase him the more they run to the cape, thinking there is grass everywhere at the end of the earth, trampling on one side and one side. It is a woman’s love, it is inevitable that sometimes foolish into the “farmer”, again and again by the snake bite, but also think there will always be good news. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
With if you do not want to be a fish hook, leaving the little heart to do the bait, even if the bite on the line is not busy first reel, but also to see if you are a valuable big “fish”. This is not to teach you to learn to be snobbish, but you have to be clear about what you want, what he wants, the best two people do not differ too far from the goal. In other words, there are no irreconcilable conflicts so that two people can live in harmony.
Just like a good man and a good woman are out of mutual love, a bad man and a bad woman are out of mutual calculation, a slap on the wrist does not ring, no one should complain. It is just a carrot and green vegetable, still each have their own love. This is the difference between men and women, is the truth of love.
I often hear some women say: “Be a bad woman if you want to be a bad woman. The “bad” that you can probably understand, I think it will be a plan. The best thing is to be in control, but if you can’t be in control, you have to be careful about making a mistake.
If you don’t love him, be nice to him and he will appreciate you, the good woman is so simple to come out; if you love him, be nice to him and he will get tired of you, the good woman is so sad to fall. This is really a saddening period. It is also a thing that can not be helped. As the saying goes, do the right thing at the right time.
If you give everything and he still doesn’t care, then leaving is a good way to go. If it takes a lot of courage to take it, it’s both courageous and wise to let it go at the right time.