Gentleness is the most favorable weapon for women to subdue men and it never goes out of style. The most important thing is that you can use this secret to get the most out of a man.
What we call taking advantage of a woman’s softness is actually tenderness. The first thing you need to do is to be gentle with your partner, your family and your home, and not to be strong in everything and to rush ahead and not let people in. And don’t make a fuss with men about it.
Nowadays, women have more and more opportunities to work outside the home, and the stage to showcase themselves is getting bigger and bigger. The society also has the slogan of gender equality, which is getting louder and louder. One of the aspects of gender equality is that in working life women and men take as much responsibility, sometimes this is a good thing, all things on their own best. Sometimes this is not necessarily a good thing, the man to you go around the distance, respect, even if you have a boyfriend, and how many men can put up with such a strong woman? Not to mention the whispers on the outside.
Every time we get together, other friends will talk about their husbands, kids, pets, shopping or recent trips, and other minutiae of life, but this bestie of mine only likes to talk about her work, and likes to end with the phrase: “Sister The momentum of the table slap shocks the men!”
Baby, you remind me of one of my own BFFs like this. She had a very special reason for losing her love: one night she came home from overtime hungry to find something to eat in the refrigerator, accidentally broke a raw egg on the floor, then she let the broken egg had been lying on the kitchen floor, waiting for the nanny to clean up the next day. The next morning her boyfriend accidentally stepped on the egg and fell down, so naturally he was very angry and asked her how she didn’t clean up the broken egg, causing him to fall. But she insisted, “It’s the nanny’s job to clean up the room, and I paid her for it.” The two of them were at loggerheads over this little matter, and finally decided that they couldn’t compromise on each other’s values, and broke up.
Yeah, she’s a career woman, but she’s had a lot of failed relationship attempts and only a few friends over the years.
It’s true that it’s the babysitter’s job to clean the room, but when we’re together, she has to think about him, and he doesn’t know there’s a broken egg here, and slipping is a very real possibility. Living together and doing the little things for each other within your means can make each other feel nestled. In turn, if he did it for you, wouldn’t you feel warm and fuzzy too?
It doesn’t have to be a babysitter to clean up, which rises above a values-based outlook on life. It’s not too easy to meet a reliable and compatible man, so why fall out on these little things? Cleaning up an egg is neither a loss of powder nor a loss of value, a few tissues can solve the matter, right? This kind of attitude, which is appreciated in the workplace, is really irritating in life.
To get back to her confusion, it is indeed a very mature professional attitude to be able to see work and life separately, but those subordinates who avoid you if everything has your maturity you may not be able to become the leader of the other side. so don’t complain that after work colleagues avoid you You are very far, the pressure of going to work has been great, and who likes to make things difficult for himself at the end of the day against a person who usually makes him feel twice as much pressure?
This is not an excuse to relieve a man. Even you, after a busy day at work, can feel tired. At this point, the tenderness of your partner can smooth out the folds between your brows, isn’t this a scene you long for? Or maybe a pinpoint partner is more welcome to you at this time?
Tight nerves at work make for fewer mistakes, which is a responsible attitude and the workplace ethic expected of a mature workplace person. After work, the man is not your subordinate, heckling command is not appropriate here. He is also not your colleague, three sincere seven polite. Nor is it your leader, and assertive insistence on your demands will be appreciated by the other side.
What a partner needs is understanding communication and tolerance, where everyone can warm up to each other and feel a faint warmth flowing through their hearts when they get along. Even if there is friction and quarrel, it is also in mutual adaptation. After the unpleasantness in the workplace, hold back until you find a better opportunity to leave, which obviously does not apply in the relationship processing. It’s all about open communication in relationships.
Women like this take it for granted that their relationships will fail. Is not met a good man? Still looking for their own intended person? How come none of them are suitable?
And don’t always blame relationship failures on men’s emotional cruising, one encounter with a philandering man is your own bad luck, but relationships are planted on the same issue every time, either your vision of choosing a man or your attitude toward men is problematic.
The women who emphasize this argument of gender equality or this is blah blah blah are usually the latter. The most important thing is to find a candidate who is comfortable living together with each other. Even if you are beautiful, have a good body, impeccable education and family income tastes, if what you give is not the ideal love model for the other party, then why must he force himself to give up the girl who is more suitable for him?
Tender does not mean having no opinion of your own and being completely dependent on the man. The main emphasis of gentleness is that women can change their ways when dealing with men, speak and act politely, and not bring the workplace hardliners into their lives.
I wonder why there are always so many women crying out to be the so-called new woman, screaming that gentleness is out of fashion. Just as men have always found slightly fleshy women sexiest whether the world is popular with dried out size 0 models or beefy plus-size models, the instinctive human quest for the sugary food, the softness of clothing, the innocence of children, the loyalty of pets, and the gentleness of women …… that makes people happy has never changed.
In the workplace, it’s especially easy to become obsessed with the “strong woman” label as a medallion to pin on your jacket every day. Indeed, the old mindset that strong people are men or masculine by default, so professional women who lack secondary sexual characteristics are easily recognized. Strong attitudes and clean lines of dress, while these are shortcuts enough to quickly conquer subordinates and rivals, also make us trot around friends who are always the same ones we were as students.
In fact, it only takes a minute to clean up the egg wash, and projects that don’t tap the table may not be unsuccessful, it’s just that many details that refuse to give more time to gentle treatment can lead to our happiness for only 8 hours of the short 23 working days of the month. For feelings and men, gentle small intention is more in time. After forming a family, tenderness is even more important for the family.