Behind a successful man is a woman who silently supports him. A good man has the shadow of a smart woman in him. Anyone who wants to meet a good man and tune into your own man, are you impressed?
A man’s journey from boy to man to man is a long one. People’s perceptions and the way they treat their feelings are influenced by their relationship experiences in addition to their family background and upbringing. If you truly love, a relationship leaves you with a mark that is mostly engraved in your heart. After separating from a woman, the body is bound to leave behind the impact of this woman on him. Slowly, the impact of several relationships has changed the way he treats his feelings and the requirements of the relationship, as he grows older, he may finally go into marriage and the initial he has been very different. Which stage of the process is the best way to get into a man?
Most of the good men who are gentle and considerate are men who are tuned in by women. When first love, each other often do not know how to cherish; experience some emotions, the man will be more cherished around you, because his ex-girlfriend has taught him a lot. So, when we have a good man, we should know that what we enjoy, is the fruit of the previous girl. So, how many of a man’s first girlfriends are the happiest?
First first love?
First love is beautiful and pure, but not pure love can replace everything. He does not know anything, the pursuit of your time to write a few love letters, called you in your dormitory building; the first time to hold your hand when considering the two days; the first time to say that love you when the face is red; the first time to kiss you, afraid of rushing you, first ask you with or without consent. This is the first love, he is not in the feelings, more do not understand women, do not know what you want. You asked him who his favorite person was, and he wouldn’t lie, saying it was his mother. You asked him if he would marry you in the future, and he froze for a moment and said he hadn’t thought about it.
The first relationship was undoubtedly youthful. This is the first time he did not have too many ideas about the relationship, nor too many requirements, basically, whatever you are, he can accept and is willing to spoil you, coax you and love you unconditionally. But most first loves also end without a hitch because the realities of the situation are not taken into account as feasible.
If you look at the depth of the imprint, the first relationship left the deepest imprint on him and had the greatest impact. Years later, he has children and can still recall sunny afternoons spent with you playing carefree under the big tree.
A second girlfriend?
He sends you flowers and invites your friends to dinner. He says “I love you” and picks you up and spins you around. The moment you say yes to him, he kisses you. This is how men behave when they are in their second relationship. He said that his girlfriend should do his boyfriend’s laundry and bring him water to wipe his sweat when he plays ball. You ask him who his favorite person is, and he thinks about it for a moment and says, it’s you. You ask, will we have a future? He said, would you like to go to my hometown? Occasionally, he thinks of his first love, and he says, I was too young to understand anything at that time.
A man who has experienced a relationship already has his own understanding of women’s preferences and so on. For feelings, for women, for marriage, he already has a vague concept, consciously or unconsciously, he is pursuing and debugging his own view of feelings. But the man in his second relationship, although he knows what he wants, he doesn’t want to tie himself down so quickly yet.
A third girlfriend?
He said, “Although I have nothing, I have a heart that loves you. Believe me, we will be happy. So you rented a room in a strange city and lived together in a small room with a simple bathroom and kitchen. Every morning you get up earlier than him and occasionally make him breakfast, taking separate cars to work. In the evening, you buy good food on the way back, back to do to him to eat, he occasionally wash the dishes, wipe the floor. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. The first time I saw it, I had to go back home with him, and he said that Dad didn’t think you were as pretty as his previous girlfriend.
A man at this stage has shed his youthfulness and moved from male to man. For women, in addition to his concern for appearance and body, he will also pay attention to whether you can cook? Can you take care of yourself? Will you be a good mother? The first thing you need to do is to think about the feasibility of marrying you, and whether the two of you are suitable for living together or not.
After two relationships, a man has plans to start a family, and he will take the initiative to bring you home to meet his parents. Will save money for you, he promised to give you happiness. It may be in the third relationship of the man’s economy is not very good, but he will work hard for your small home. So a man who has gone through two relationships is basically considered a good candidate for marriage.
A fourth girlfriend?
He said, “I think we’ll get along. He stayed overnight that night when he sent you home. He is very caring and always knows what a woman needs. He surprised you before you even asked for it. He bought the house and put your name on it. When his mother saw you, she said, “Daughter, you’re not too young, get married! You felt so happy and accepted his diamond ring. One day, you went through his computer and saw a letter he wrote to his ex-girlfriend about your story, and then said: These are the things I want to do for you the most, but I didn’t understand or have the conditions before.
After three relationships, a man already has some financial means, and he can give you what you need to live. But men at this stage may have stopped focusing on feelings after a few relationships and just choose a marriage partner, so be wary of whether men are getting married for the sake of getting married.
If you can meet this man at this stage, then no doubt you are lucky. He is a mature man, both financially and psychologically, and you can enjoy the precipitation of all the trials and tribulations he has gone through before. Those precipitations have brewed into a mellow wine, and all you have to do is savor it slowly and drink the wine.
If you can meet this man at this stage, it will undoubtedly be a great challenge for yourself as well. It is because he is not lacking in anything, it is because he has a clear plan for women, for marriage, for the future, as long as you show a little bit of unsuitability, he will deduct a point from you, another point, sixty points or less, it will be out. You have to be friends with him and be able to share everything with an open heart; also if you are a subordinate, admire and respect him; also if you are a lover, with charming qualities in you that he can’t walk away from.
Each stage of a man’s life has its own unique flavor, just like different vintages of wine. Which vintage do you like? And which year of wine can you drink?