There are many reasons that lead to extramarital affairs, and problems in the couple’s relationship are the main causal factors. The poor foundation of marriage, the weakening of love between the couple, the lighter commitment of the couple, the lack of attention to daily communication and emotional development, the long-term failure to meet personal needs, etc., can provide an opportunity for extramarital affairs to take advantage of. Generally speaking, if the following eight phenomena occur between couples, be careful to beware.
The right kind of love for each other, a proper understanding of the obligations and responsibilities of marriage, and a mutual determination to run a successful married life. Once the benchmarks of marriage are violated, the marriage will break down. Let’s take a look at what causes an extramarital affair.
1. One or both partners lack a sense of responsibility for the marriage and family and like to dabble in flowers. This type of couple, at the beginning of the marriage did not think about how to take care of the future life, marriage and family in their consciousness does not have a complete concept, grew up to hear the irresponsible parents, and as adults, also a carefree attitude towards family.
2. Couples get together a lot and one or both feel lonely and helpless. Feelings need soil and fertilizer, separated, or one party is busy outside all day green, back home the other half has gone to sleep. Although they sleep in the same bed, there is little time and opportunity for real communication, both of which can lead to one or both sides cheating.
3. The high rate of affairs in social circles and long term exposure to imitation. This is an era of frequent interaction between people, the need for business, work pressure, are inevitably into the social circle, to tea and dinner outside abound. Long-term see are fashionable women or successful men. The company’s main goal is to provide a platform for the development of a new product.
4. There is a chronic sense of dissatisfaction with marriage and an inability to get your inner needs met. Some people have different motives for getting married, in marriage, there are always their own inner thoughts, just forced to make do, or “marry the chicken to follow the chicken to marry the dog to follow the dog”.
5. There is a special friendship with a past lover and old feelings are rekindled. If a former lover suffers marital misfortune, he or she will naturally miss the past lover, thinking that he or she is the one. It is not known that all new marriages have a break-in period, and love is beautiful, but never every day in front of the moon, unless it does not eat the fire of the world.
6. Married life is dull or there is nothing to talk about, and you want to seek romance. Even if two people stick together every day, after a long time, no fresh topics or new needs will get bored. Like two parallel tracks, two people see each other every day, but their emotions rarely meet.
7. Long-term lack of warmth and attention in the family does not satisfy their desire for conquest and fulfillment. The majority of men, this type of men’s cheating rate accounted for about 50% of extramarital affairs, to attract the special attention of female friends Oh!
8. One party is under too much pressure and is in a transitional or dangerous period of life. If people reach middle age, especially men’s career promotion is blocked or business expansion is not smooth, often feel disillusioned and upset. At this time, if you do not get the family, especially the wife’s understanding and consideration, the most likely to find other “considerate” woman to talk. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.