As a man, there are more or less secrets that you don’t want your girlfriend to know, but what are the deepest secrets that men hide in their hearts? A Japanese website published an article about the results of the survey.
1. No relationship experience
“Honestly, she could be considered my first love, I just had a girl friend in middle school that I could barely talk about having dated. Because it felt so humiliating, I told her that I had dated about 3 people.” A 22-year-old college student had this to say.
For some reason, the trend now is that it’s better for men to have relationship experience and better for women to have little relationship experience. That’s why guys are trying to hide the fact that they have no relationship experience.
2. Having weird fetishes
“Although I kept it a secret from her, I do have a taste fetish. Although I want to smell her whole body, but this kind of thing is beaten to death I can not say.” A 25-year-old photographer had this to say.
It’s said that there are men who go to the fling just to satisfy their weird sexual fetishes. The boyfriend who is lovingly devoted to his girlfriend in bed may not be revealing his true colors.
3. Have a girlfriend who doesn’t know about the trumpet
“I’m definitely not going to tell her that I have another Twitter trumpet and that she’s going to get a lot of shit for seeing it.” So said one 20-year-old college student.
For a variety of reasons, such as to eliminate mental stress, many people quietly hide their social trumpets. Shouldn’t we turn a blind eye to this?
4. Break up with your ex-girlfriend because you’re having an affair
“Broke up with my ex-girlfriend because of my own philandering, but told my current girlfriend that I broke up because of a fight. I think I’ll lose trust if I’m found out.” A 20-year-old college student said this.
Neither men nor women want to let their ex-girlfriend know they’re cheating on them, but on the other hand, telling them directly can have a positive effect.