The older you get, the more nostalgic you get, and naturally men miss the suave, swaying, and the good old days. The small vanity of having a woman who once loved you and still cares for you is quite pleasant to think about.
First of all, you have to understand that men like to help women, and being “needed” gives men a great deal of self-esteem satisfaction. The first thing you need to understand is that men like to help women.
Secondly, even if they find a woman’s request troublesome, men generally don’t go out of their way to explicitly reject women. Whether female colleagues, female classmates, female teachers, girlfriends, mothers …… careful observation you will find that men really are rarely reject women’s requests, but also rarely take the initiative to find nothing to hurt women, if women are too unreasonable men will only say a “who let her be a woman “. For example, why men caught between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law dilemma, is because both sides are love his woman, favoring which one will hurt the other. The ex-girlfriend is also a woman and has loved him, how determined do you expect him to be towards her?
Lastly, you have to realize that the older you get, the more nostalgic people are, and this is regardless of gender. The woman misses her own beauty and the stars; the man naturally also misses the suave and the good-looking. There is a woman once loved you, and now still care about you, this small vanity, thinking about it is quite pleasant. If your ex-boyfriend is the first to think of you when you are sad, in your birthday will think of sending you a gift, and girlfriend quarrel will find you to talk and tell you “she really can not compare to you”, how do you feel? The first thing you need to do is to get the best out of it.
Reunions with old lovers almost always end in a hurry because of the gloomy atmosphere, no matter how strong their desire to see each other was before, two hearts don’t collide instantly after years, decades or even decades of separation.
It’s really no big deal for a man to think about his ex-girlfriend once in a while, or even to see one. Perhaps the original breakup has too much helplessness, but if it has become a past tense, then we must learn to forget, who can not go back to the past, people can not always live in the past. The actual fact that you are in love doesn’t mean that you have to possess, sometimes it is good to bless each other.