The most common way to deal with domestic violence is to call the police, but this method is only an ideal state after all, it is like a fruit hanging on the tip of a tree, you can see it, but you can’t necessarily eat it. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible solution to the problem of domestic violence.
One, respond to the “first time” with maximum resistance and madness;
One, respond to the “first time” with maximum resistance and madness;
In fact, there are many real-life facts that tell us that the key to stopping domestic violence is often the “first time. If we respond in a slapdash way the first time we encounter domestic violence and let it go like that, nine times out of ten there will be a more serious second and third time.
Whenever we encounter domestic violence, we need to respond with the utmost defiance and frenzy, especially the first time. Be sure to let the other party completely from this first “careless” and “reckless” in the wake up, accept severe punishment, deep introspection, so that they really hurt a few days, long memory, the best is to “talk about the tiger The best is to “talk about the tiger”, can not dare to force down after the next time to raise the hand. Weakness is the animal kingdom can never change the law of survival, get marriage and family to apply the same. The timid are afraid of the bold, the bold are afraid of the desperate, the man has the strength to inflict violence, then the woman must also have the ability to entangle to fight back.
The second, know their sex before deciding whether to talk back;
There are usually two types of men who commit domestic violence: those who bully the good and the bad, and those who eat the soft but not the hard. It is recommended that such two kinds of men must be treated differently. For the former can talk back, and must talk back, and even to make resistance to come more violent. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you are getting into.
For the latter, female compatriots should not eat the immediate loss, let him say whatever he says, do not talk back, learn to show weakness, to be able to understand the reason for his anger in time, to make full use of the various conditions of the time and place and people, to help themselves The “crisis” at hand. In the end, these use the sky is always blue old family saying is, “couples should know the heart to move sex”!
Three, use his soft spot as a bottom card and show it when it matters;
Cen is a woman who suffers so much from domestic violence that she once set a record for the most violent beatings by her husband five times a week. After many attempts to get a divorce, she began to learn from her experience. Her husband was a very feudal man, and her mother, who had grown up with severe domestic violence from her father, finally committed suicide by jumping into a well because she could not bear the pain. So, in revenge for the wrongs his father had done to his mother, they died of old age, and for ten years they did not say a word to each other, and the old man lived a very miserable old age.
In response to this personal experience of her husband, Sham caught his soft spot. Once just when the husband wanted to rant and rave, she instead rushed to her husband and said: “You hit it, hit it, beat me to death, your father did not also beat your mother to death in the same way? Anyway, your family is one generation, I also resigned to fate!” And this sentence exactly out of the husband’s heart the most sorrowful memory, the mother is his life’s most loved one, and this time he had to the woman in front of him and once the suffering of his mother linked together. It was this hatred and pity for his mother that gave him the strength to control himself, and that time his slap did not go to Sham, but flashed viciously at himself.
Her husband also had a weakness, which was that he never struck in front of his son, so whenever he squeaked his teeth to get angry, she would go to her son’s room on the pretext of avoiding him, and after the other side chilled out for a few minutes, a domestic violence that would have come to pass.
Through Sham’s situation, it is easy to conclude that almost everyone has their own soft spot. This soft spot needs to rely on the usual observation and summary, if you can master it well, perhaps in a critical time can be used as a bottom card to save us. This method is risky, works, but should never be used. In the end, domestic violence is a waste of time and sadness if the number of times you use the method again.
Fourth, self-sufficiency, self-love and self-improvement are always the strongest assets for women to deal with domestic violence;
Fourth, self-sufficiency, self-love and self-improvement are always the strongest assets for women to deal with domestic violence;
Many women who suffer from domestic violence are women who are unable to stand on their own feet and love and strengthen themselves, who have weakness in their character, lack drive in their actions, and lack self-reliance in their spirit. This makes them vulnerable in their marriages for a long time, and the men see through her at a glance and eat their hearts out, knowing that no matter what she can’t leave herself, thus emboldened, macho thinking becomes inflated and pathological.
Fifth, the ability to recognize “weather clouds”;
Fifth, the ability to recognize “weather clouds”;
Fifth, the ability to recognize “weather clouds”;
indent:2em;text-align:left;”>In addition to the fact that some of the reasons for domestic violence are personality disagreements or violence on the part of one party, a significant portion of it is due to the fact that one or both parties fail to identify or resolve the conflict after it arises. The first thing you need to do is to make sure that you have a good understanding of what is going on.
As a couple, one partner should understand the other’s minimum hobbies, emotional development patterns, and know when he is likely to lose his temper. Only with this ability, women can harness their husbands. At least to some extent, it can effectively prevent domestic violence from happening.