When it comes to a man’s ex, there is always an unspoken feeling. This woman, would have done all the things you do now with this man, and probably a little more intimately. Although they have separated, the traces are still there. Like the mark of a dried up drop of water, it can never be erased. What to do? Forcing a man to forget? No, better to enjoy it with him.
Ex-girlfriend becomes a cooler between them
Ex-girlfriend. Seems to be our lifelong arch-enemy. The city they went to together, the old places they dated, the occasional nostalgic look in his eyes, unconsciously, these cynicism became a stalk in the heart, can not be eradicated, grow in the heart of the itch.
Young love and passion are inevitably full of comparison and jealousy. The boyfriend who loves to travel and take her everywhere is indeed happy and sweet at first, but as he shows his experience, she can’t help but start to get suspicious: “Did you take your ex-girlfriend and come here?
The answer was obvious, so why ask? But the demented question, since it has already been said, what intelligent answer can be expected from the other side? The first thing you need to do is to get rid of the problem by a short silence, or by changing the subject, which is already considered graceful.
Should he have answered frankly and directly, “Yeah, so? Or lie: “No. The former will leave you speechless for a moment; the latter will make you more distrustful. Both, in turn, make each other unhappy.
When you’re out with your lover, there’s nothing worse than asking them, “Did you come here with your ex? The first time you say it, you’re guaranteed to lose your fun.
especially if you like to ask the question, “When was that? “You still can’t get over each other, can you? It’s the easiest way to rub it in.
The cry-it-out tactic has gone out of style
Usually, when women hear the word ex-girlfriend, they start to get upset. . If the word comes from the man next to her, the uneasiness can develop into an irritation. If the man scoffs at it, then the woman will keep brainstorming. It’s a prelude to betrayal.
Is such agitation necessary? Probably ninety percent of women will feel that it is very necessary. STOP! Let’s break it down before we continue to brainstorm and argue.
First, let’s admit that there is indeed a type of man who is very amorous. This amorality refers to his pity for women. In front of the opposite sex that he does not know, he may be gentle and gentlemanly man. In the presence of a woman he knows and has feelings for, he is considerate and understanding.
Maybe he really still has feelings for his ex-girlfriend, or maybe he’s just treating her the way he normally would be treated but is misunderstood as begging to get back together, either way, it’s a violation of the current girlfriend’s rights. The company’s main goal is to provide a solution to the problem.
But this kind of counterattack we don’t recommend to show in an intense emotion. If you meet such an amorous man and want to continue to have him, the best way is to separate the two of them. In a kind of I’m your ex-girlfriend’s best friend posture in front of the man, what the ex-girlfriend needs, you actively help. In this way, men have no place to play, and naturally the two have no chance to get along. If it’s all about arguing and fighting with men, it will instead push them further away.
It’s better to run away than to face up
This kind of amorous men are generally a minority. Most men have very subtle feelings about their ex-girlfriends. In fact, the two are not even ordinary friends, if the other is really in trouble, within the limits of their ability, may help. If it’s a problem for their existing life, they won’t be so dry.
So, after grasping this mentality of men, you actually don’t need to panic so much as a current girlfriend. The man talked to you about his encounter with his ex-girlfriend, not necessarily not a report and report. It means to tell you that I have contact with my ex-girlfriend, but baby you don’t misunderstand. You ignored the meaning he wanted to express, but also identified this as a precursor to betrayal and resentment, what will men think? Normal people get misunderstood and get angry without a name.
“He/she just thought of me during the window because he/she broke up with the ex!” Often people get love but say this indignantly, which is really chilling. Unnecessary hatred and rivalry can quickly choke love to death. Pointless arguments and tears can completely consume the foundation of their relationship. Do you want that outcome?
Don’t let hypotheticals kill love rather than enjoy the past with him
Love has all kinds of beginnings, except The vast majority of people face the fact that the other person has an ex. The dream man and his ex break up to find himself, the beautiful dream is becoming a reality, and it is a normal and effective strategy to start doing things right and make him feel more comfortable and fit in his current life.
Even if you have some doubts in your mind and can see a lot of memories in his eyes, please quietly let that yellowed movie replay once in his mind, don’t ask questions, don’t be suspicious.
If you’re still upset, just tell yourself silently in your mind: yes. He was here with his ex, so what? Those are in the past, ah, is that he has no relationship with his predecessor, today you have the opportunity to stand here. This is the idea that will help you to be invincible.
Time, it’s true, passes cruelly; but time will also allow you to be mercurial because of its fleeting nature. When the years get older and you become mature, the ideas and attitudes will be different.
Who doesn’t have a past, who doesn’t have vicissitudes?
When the train of love climbs all the way up to the gentle slope of mental maturity, you will find that the most beautiful journey along the way is your willingness to accompany him to see the scenery of the past, standing at the top of the mountain and the end of the water, to enjoy together.
or vicissitudes, or beauty, all in a thought.
especially the past he can’t forget, which takes a lifetime to heal, will eventually grow deeper because of your understanding and companionship.
And a hidden word, his ex-girlfriend might be your ex because, well, you can’t guarantee that you won’t become his ex.
Honey, how about facing his past head on, because all these roads you have walked before too, you have loved all the eyes of another person, only at this moment, the person standing next to you, is him. Can you let these roads that have been taken, have become the most beautiful scenery in your growth? The actual fact is that you will be able to get a lot more than just a few of the most popular and popular items.