I believe many men have an ideal model for their future significant other. What kind of person is your ideal girlfriend? It is understood that in a survey on the ideal girlfriend for men, a large proportion of people answered that they expect their girlfriend to be a pleasant and comfortable person to be with. What are the specific characteristics of such a woman? The first time I saw this was on a Japanese website, where some men’s opinions were presented.
Listens well
A 24-year-old man said. “Generally in communication there are a lot of women who are eager to express their opinions, emotions, etc., and there are not many people who can really listen to my thoughts, so I feel that women who know how to listen to others are more understanding and make it easier to get along.”
It’s true that many men, not just women, find it relaxing to be around women who are good listeners, and they talk more without realizing it, and sometimes they even lose track of time when they get excited.
No tentativeness
One 26-year-old man said. “I generally don’t like to be tested by people.”
In fact, women do have a greater “inquisitiveness” and curiosity than men. But there are some things that men don’t like to mention, so they find it pleasant to be with a woman who understands them completely on this point, rather than a woman who “asks all the questions”. This is especially true when some women ask about their ex-girlfriends and casually compare them to themselves, and they become depressed instantly. It is usually the case that men find such women troublesome, and naturally they will slowly leave you.
Speaking softly
A 31-year-old man said. “A harmonious and pleasant voice is also important in the relationship between two people. I think women who speak softly and softly will be relaxed and more comfortable to get along with.” It is also painful for men to meet women with loud and harsh voices in normal conversation. On the contrary, if the other party is gentle, harmonious and pleasant women will certainly make men feel good. The most important thing is that it is not just about the sound of the woman’s voice, but about the silence or the lack of harmony.
The laughing point is the same
One 27-year-old man said. “Laughing with her is something that makes me very happy, so that not only do I not have to worry about embarrassing each other by not finding something to talk about, but at the same time it also makes me feel good physically and mentally.” When two people get together, if they don’t have the right laugh or the right words, they have to try to find common topics and so on, but of course, sometimes this is a very difficult task. However, if you use your laughing points as a common topic and share funny things that are happening around you, you can not only improve the atmosphere of your conversation, but also help increase your feelings for each other.
As you can see, being comfortable in a relationship and making yourself feel good is one of the things that men must consider when choosing the person they want to be with. Do you want to be the ideal woman for men and meet your man? The first thing you need to do is to act quickly according to the introduction above.