As a woman, unless you’re just looking for a marriage co-owner, this kind of marriage is certainly a bitter pill to swallow. What are the usual traps for this end-of-year hate marriage to a leftover man?
1. He wants nothing from you.
Doesn’t require you to be as beautiful as a flower, or as tall as a diploma. The material aspect may be slightly lacking, but his own conditions may not be bad, to diploma has a diploma, look at least medium. For women, this kind of man is not a good target, but win to get along well, each other to everyone is not too much requirements. Some people call it, realistic. The actual fact is that it’s not a good idea to have a good time.
Do you really think you’re seeing things clearly? In fact, he is in desperate need of your help to share the care of his family and has not thought carefully about married life, that’s why he has no demands on you. After the marriage, all kinds of demands popped up, and it is only natural to have conflicts.
2. When you’re in love, he’ll put up with you as long as you don’t touch his bottom line, and he’ll even be obedient to you.
Finding a man who treats you well is a woman’s dream. What is good? The most important thing is that you have to be able to be patient and obedient.
A woman’s heart is a needle at the bottom of the sea. The woman’s capricious picky and careful eye is recognized. There are not many men with a good temper who can accommodate, so once women meet, they will cherish. You think you have met a good man? Wrong. In fact, you do not know him at all. He also did not show his true character and preferences in front of you. The woman, you are holding hands with nothing more than the one you think you have in your own mind, not the real him.
This also leads to a consequence. That is, once his wife and his family are in conflict, you will find that he will take the side of his family no matter what the situation is, rather than running around trying to untangle the two sides. Why? Because you are just a random person he married back.
3. After getting together, he quickly proposed to you.
A woman is quite happy when her boyfriend proposes. Two people together for a short time? It must be that men love themselves too much and want to tie themselves down, right? It’s really sweet to think about it. Women, in fact, there is another possibility for this situation: he simply does not care. Changed to a similar condition of other women, he will also do the same thing. It’s not because he likes you, he loves you, it’s because he needs to take a wife, and the sooner the better.
Marriage means very different things to men and women. For a woman, a man is a lifetime of dependence. The man is the backbone of the family, everything has him to take care of. The two of them support each other all the way, hand in hand white head. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
And for a man, a wife can be a lifelong companion or simply a literal wife. The minimum requirement is that she can give birth to his children, run the household, be filial to the elderly, and when he is charging ahead, his wife takes care of the rear so that he has no worries. If it’s a man with a small output, housekeeping can be dispensed with. It is not necessary to have spiritual communication, it does not matter if you do not understand him, and you do not have to get down to the kitchen and up to the hall. The most important thing is that you have to have a good understanding of the situation.
So the man’s requirements for his wife are not really very high. And for men who encounter such indifference, women, you have to be prepared for the pain. Even if you divorce, after wasting the best years, you will still carry a wound.