Women always count their men, which is not good, which is not good. Then there is no man in this world is able to completely meet the needs of women? Many women want this answer to be YES, but in fact the answer is NO. The perfect man is up to the woman to shape.
Does the perfect man exist
Women can’t stop The woman can’t stop complaining about the man and always dreaming about finding a “Mr. Perfect”. But is “Mr. Perfect” really born perfect? The man with all the faults and flaws really can’t be your life partner? The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
A girl in the same dorm dated a guy in the department in college, but the guy was not well received by all of us for the simple reason that he was too obsessed with games and couldn’t take care of people. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. The reason for this is that he is a loser in life, so there is no need to bury your youth for a doomed future. But the good thing is that she didn’t listen to us, but tried to change and reform him, and never left him.
It turns out that men do grow up, only some will do so a little later. Sometimes you’ll be talking about it day and night, and he’ll be too oily, but then he’ll suddenly be hit with something that will make him realize that he’s transformed overnight from a big boy who needs your care to a man with a sense of responsibility.
Why do women today feel like men are always out of their league? In the words of a grandmother who answered how to maintain a sixty-year relationship, “In our day we wanted to fix everything that broke, not replace it.”
Men rely on women to “fix”
The world is filled with too many women who don’t bother to cultivate and feel out their men when choosing them, wanting an off-the-shelf product, and then rushing to replace it when problems arise. Too adept at choosing a relationship and too negligent at nurturing one.
Perhaps we need to devote more time to waiting, polishing, and repairing when it comes to this emotional thing. The actual fact is that you will be able to get a lot more than just a couple of days to get a lot more than just a couple of days. No matter how fast the pace of life is, this is a part of a relationship that cannot be omitted. If you want to skip it, you’ll be in the awkward position of constantly changing, always looking, and constantly reversing your choices.
Women always complain that good men are hard to find, but what women lack is the ability to “fix” men as opposed to choosing and finding them. When a man’s shortcomings are exposed, do not easily want to change or throw him away, but to open your mind and find a way to “fix” him. The two people can get to know each other in the process of repairing and mending, and he has time to understand you, to cut and grow for you, to gradually become the most intimate and warm clothes for you.
One, he has the right strengths for you
Some girls choose Men, at first, are extremely harsh: not good-looking, not good-sounding, not good walking posture, not picky eating, not tasteful talking …… Although a high threshold may seem like it will allow you to be choosy, it’s actually much riskier because a high threshold will allow you to put many potential opportunities to waste. Many girls are selected from the age of 20 on the super high standard, selected to the age of 30 is not one can be in the eyes of the law. The first thing you need to do is to get a new one.
Two, look at the future in the low period of men
We know that Now even with a monthly salary of $20,000, it’s unlikely that a 25-ish year old boy can afford a house in the city. It’s important to measure a man’s material base through the lens of development.
Usually a man around 28 is the lowest point in his life, and neither his career, nor his life, nor his love will be particularly satisfying. Of course, here is talking about ordinary boys, rich second generation, official second generation are not included in this. Therefore, do not use his income and property at the age of 28 to judge his life career. At that time income of three thousand, the future may be three million; then income of 10,000, the future may be a million …… please focus on the “sense of responsibility” and “whether to love you” above. The first thing you need to do is to get the best out of it.
How can you tell if a man can get out of a slump? It’s actually quite simple, you don’t need to care how much he loses or how he loses, you just need to care about the timing of his down time. If he spends all his time learning or looking around for new opportunities, he’s sure to succeed; conversely, if he spends all his time playing and gambling, he’s toast.
So when a man is at a low point, you should have the easiest time picking out one that is bound to succeed in the future.
Three, good men are good at details
Most men who can grow old with their wives The majority of men who can grow old with their wives are actually quite ordinary. They are bound to have a lot of flaws, and at the same time do not see how great the advantages. Men are a kind of animal that does not pay attention to details, so observe the details of a man’s life, can see a person’s shortcomings. But more importantly, the details can reveal a man’s strengths.
Looking at a man’s strengths before falling in love and looking at his weaknesses afterwards is the “magic formula” for choosing a good man.
In fact, love is very simple, in a relationship, you pay more and get less, then the man is not love you; conversely, you pay less and get more, then the man must be love you. We look at men in detail to see if he has given more than you have given to him.
Relationships don’t drag out testing men with skills
Actually
In fact, for many women, it’s useless to talk through the rules. They do not know how to choose, but they do not have the ability to choose calmly. They are confused by this flowery world.
So either find a man who can make a good life for you, or find a man for whom you will willingly suffer. Other than that, let them have as far as they can flash. You don’t owe him anything, you’re not nobody, don’t see a man as soon as he poses as a weakling, you’re maternal. “I’d rather find a dad than go be someone’s mom” is the most basic criteria for choosing a spouse.
Relationships don’t drag out testing men with skills
Choosing Men are not choosing clothes that are readily available on Taobao. Men are more like a high-end private custom-made products, get your hands on the fabric has advantages and disadvantages, to turn him into clothes that meet their preferences, it depends on the inspiration and wonderful hands of designers and tailors. The man after honing is the one who fits your fashion. Can ready-made fabric be ready to wear? Almost never.