Your love may be sweet, but sometimes it can be physically and emotionally exhausting. You are like a mother or a nanny to him, as you take care of all kinds of life chores? The first thing you need to do is to take a look at …… to see if you have these conditions, and if so, consider balancing and coordinating your relationship.
1. Is it comparable to babysitting? The first thing you need to do is to take care of your daily life, and he never has to move, just sit back and enjoy.
When you want to eat, you can’t resist the sweet words and pampering, and you’re sweating in the kitchen just to get a satisfied smile from him …… “The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to the public, such as the Internet, the Internet, the Internet and the Internet.
2, life is a big lazybones all let you in charge
Each couple allocate finances in different states, maybe the woman has sole control of the family finances, maybe the man is responsible for all the expenses, but if all the expenses of daily life come from you, you should think about why that is …… he has no income? His money is only used in their own food, drink, entertainment and dressing? He is within the four seas are brothers often go out drinking and socializing? If you are not only his babysitter, or his check, then what exactly are you doing with him?
3. No desire to work and be idle, having you is enough.
He doesn’t worry about his job at all, as long as his income can sustain his daily food and drink, he has no other grand plans. He likes to live a relaxed life, and goals like the future are not on his mind.
He has a job, but doesn’t work hard at it, or maybe he doesn’t work at all and spends his time watching TV or eating and drinking.
What you need to do is to quickly help him change his mind and attitude, so that he can establish scientific values and guide the right way forward, so that he can face his future path positively and create a bright future for both of you! There is another way besides this, which is to leave him.
4. Economic dependence on you
The so-called “your money is his money, your money is common money”, in this seemingly indistinguishable atmosphere of intimacy, you have gradually collapsed under his sugar-coated shells. The surface looks like he relies on you and can’t leave you to do everything by you, but in fact you’ve been eaten by him! The first thing you need to do is to wake up, see your true relationship and make a wise choice before it’s too late!
If you’re reading this and you find yourself in one of these situations with him …… don’t cover your face and get upset, look at your relationship, try to coordinate to turn it around and The same can be said for the way to take a big step towards happiness.