What does it take to hold a man’s heart? Beauty? The actual fact is that you can’t get a lot of people to do this. No, none of them. To make a man’s heart only you, need a lot of aspects of the common composition, and constantly surprise him to do. The best way to raise a girlfriend is to make you the only one for him.
Just as beauty is a woman’s life’s work, how to capture a man’s heart is a subject women have to study for a lifetime. But men are no less fickle than women, so how can you capture his heart? As a smart woman, not necessarily need amazing beauty, but in appearance, must give people a comfortable clean feeling; not necessarily need very good cooking skills, but must have one or two of their own specialties; not necessarily need you at home a taste of husband and children, but to do when the man needs, his logistics. It’s not that easy to be the best girlfriend.
1. Women should dress up. Dress yourself up pretty and cute every day and commit to love for once. Most women need a heartfelt love so that they can achieve emotional immunity as early as possible and leave more rational space for the days ahead.
2. Read more and think more. Knowledge is what will improve your lot, and its benefits will gradually become apparent after you turn 25. By then, no matter how you can not find the former feelings of youth, see the young people around, there are only two words: envy. The most important thing for women at this time is temperament, which is inseparable from substance, thanks to the books you have read and the struggle for self-reflection, optimism to pay for the life of the journey, temperament is not pretend.
3. Although not every woman has this strong sense of career, then at least you can do something you like, even if you write some articles, Aunt Qiong Yao wrote something that bought a lot of money, maybe you can be better than her. Don’t tell me you just like to lie on the couch and watch TV and eat snacks.
4. Be a woman who is financially independent and independent-minded. With this in mind, face your boyfriend who respects you and be a good little cat without pressure.
5. Keep a little mystery. Don’t reveal everything about yourself to him 100%. A person who is overfed is anorexic and not grateful.
6. Know how to hide behind him at the right time. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you want to do.
7. Only be dumb in front of him and let him be surprised to find out that you, who in everyone’s eyes is ice-cold smart, can also make retarded mistakes that only he knows about.
8. Don’t mess up when things go wrong. In the long road of life, many times even if two people are together, there are things that need to be faced alone. Being able to handle things independently is a sign of an adult, and even if you are a couple or husband and wife, you cannot hide the fact that you are two individuals.
9. Don’t test men too often. The more you do not threaten to break up, when you often give him such hints, his subconscious will be ready to break up the plan. If one day he coldly agrees, by then it will be too late for you to regret it.
10. Don’t kill the love between two people for no reason. Don’t be late often. Don’t think that a man should have unlimited patience if he loves you. Everyone’s patience has a limit, patience wears out, it will wear out love. And don’t ask men to go shopping with you too often. Most men don’t really like shopping, and the ultimate end of coercion will be resistance.
11. Don’t measure your boyfriend’s love for you in terms of money. If you really love him, you will compare the three when buying your own things, but will not hesitate to buy what he likes. If you really love him, you won’t ask him to give you any expensive gifts, just that he can spend the whole day with you on your birthday.
12. Maintain his self-esteem. Hurt is hurt, whether in front of others or alone, whether he loves you or not. Give him complete confidence. Don’t ignore a man’s minimal dignity because of a moment of good fortune.
If you really love him, give him face in front of his buddies, there’s no need to fight with your boyfriend to the death.
13. Leave a little personal space for both you and him. Men like to breathe air freely, leave him a little space, the feelings will be deeper. Bored, lonely, when he is not with you, is not wondering what he is doing? It so happens that his cell phone is dead and he has not been able to get through. Then, your heart will be very messy. If you really love him, do not tell him how much you care about him and want him to be by your side all the time. At this time, you can find your friends, talk on the phone, go shopping and pass the time.
14. Always care about your boyfriend. If you really love him, a heart is always on him: How was your day? The first thing you need to do is to pay attention to the rest? The actual fact is that you can be a good deal more than just a little bit of a good deal. But caring is not the same as nagging plus spying.
15. Be gentle and reassuring when your boyfriend is troubled, and share your worries. More compliments to your boyfriend, your words may be his motivation. If you really love him, you will wholeheartedly support him and do with him what he likes to do. You will not let him stop moving forward because of you, but learn to encourage him so that he does not have to worry about going forward. Because life is short, and happiness is the most important thing.
16. Don’t stay away from him after a busy day of life because he smells like sweat, but gently wipe off his sweat; when he is too lazy to take a shower, help him get water for his feet and help him wash and massage his face instead of kicking him out of bed. .
17. Keep some distance from your boyfriend’s boyfriend. If you’re too far away, he’ll say you’re not enthusiastic about his friends, and if you’re too close, it’s a big deal.
18. Don’t always compare your man with other men, don’t say he’s not as romantic or considerate as others. Everyone is special and loves in different ways, and saying this often can make love a mental burden.
19. Don’t use this line of thinking to guide your love – look for evidence in a man’s words and actions that he doesn’t love you. A man can’t focus on a woman every moment, and he can’t notice every hint or displeasure a woman has. When you use a magnifying glass to look for dust, you will always find it.
20. Don’t measure love by wins and losses. If your love is one where you enjoy more rights and the other person has to do more duties, then you need to try to change it. Love also fits the laws of economics and creates a mutual win-win situation that will last.
Every man has his own best girlfriend in mind, and the above is just some summary based on experience. If you really want to be the best girlfriend in your his eyes, I believe a heart that loves him will show you the way.