Perhaps women are always insecure in love willingly, women always want to get a man’s assurance and commitment again and again, so that they can feel at ease. But women, sometimes you these actions, may quench the man’s enthusiasm for you Oh. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you are doing.
“If your mom and I fell in the river, who would you save first?” This question is silly and very old, but there are still women asking, probably because women really want to determine their position in the heart of their lover. Similar questions are asked after marriage: “Do you want me or your mother?” and “If you don’t say yes, we’ll get a divorce.
Women, when you say this, you are psychologically confident that the man will not agree to the request for separation? Otherwise, it will not be so justified to say it. But you have not thought, in case, you put forward to separate or divorce the request, he finally agreed to it? The actual fact is that you can find a lot of people who are not able to get a good deal on a lot of things.
As a woman, you need to know how to use softness to make men turn into softness, and avoid taking these direct and stupid moves to anger your man. You’re on the sidelines dabbling, and maybe he’s already planning to turn away.
1.Deliberately late for a date
Since when The girl likes the art of being late for a date, choosing to be 5, 10, 15 minutes or even longer than the pre-arranged time to test her boyfriend’s feelings for her …… to make her boyfriend wait a bit anxious, but also must be generous and tolerant of you. Once the man put up a face and said, “Not next time!” , what is ushered in may be an argument or a cold war.
However, the majority of men will hold back their inward anger, and will put on a cheerful face and say, “It’s okay, I just got there too!” In fact, he has been sitting there viciously smoking half a pack of cigarettes, the heart of your dissatisfaction also planted!
2. Check the phone and empty your pockets
The former is concerned about the other half “The latter is to check the man’s “economic problems”: whether there is a small treasury, whether to conceal or misrepresent income. Three words: distrust. The man in this family to make a living, must be very depressed and bitter, only a matter of time to explode.
3. “Love me or not?” , “Just how much?”
After a day of asking N times, happy, men look a little impatient, immediately on the line that they are not valued by the other side, and want the man to reassure again and again. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
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Crying is fine and has some aesthetic value. The most low level is to talk about “breakup”, sharpening the knife, killing the gas, in fact, shouting “the wolf is coming” is only for show, but it is unbearable. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
5. “Do you like Liuyan?”
Then gleefully wait on the side for their man to answer. In fact, many times, women like to hear the “perfect answer” rather than the “true heart”, which makes it very tricky for men.
A man who doesn’t pay attention to or think about other women must be the Monkey King or the Monk. Most men are reinforcing their desires and fantasies about sex by admiring women. Once you figure that out, you need to stop forcing the tiger to become a cat to catch a mouse!
6. “Are friends important or am I important?”
Once in a relationship, a man loses his freedom. If your boyfriend is playing with his buddies or drinking and doesn’t get to your girlfriend’s house in time to change the light bulb, it’s an extremely serious matter because you lose face in front of your parents! In order to show its “first” status, always like to dominate the boyfriend, let him rebellion, do a lonely family “love” people! The truth is, no matter how much a man cares about you, he also needs friends.
7, you must have a house and a diamond ring!
Proposing is a hurdle, and it’s about finances. Girls like to compare and pass the pressure on to their boyfriends, and if they don’t have a house and diamond ring, they don’t want to “get their fingers dirty”! Pre-marital anxiety can make a man run away from the battlefield. Love is needed to prove, but do not vainly show off. The man is used to rely on, but also to hold.
8. Sleep on a man’s arm
Actually, do this Men are tired and women are uncomfortable. The woman’s psychological satisfaction is based on the man’s “flesh”, the man will later see the bed as a “fear of the road”, as soon as lying down reflexively hands and feet tingling.
9, love punishment
If a man does not agree to some of your The first thing you need to do is to get out of bed and throw a pillow and tell him to get out! This kind of love as a weapon to force a man to change or give in to the behavior, may eventually evolve the husband’s coldness, long-term, men will produce a sense of frustration.
10. Discipline your husband in public and kick him under the dinner table
A man’s face is bigger than his ass, and refuting his face in public is a big taboo. Fear of wife although some people call it “virtue”, but for the man is very hurt! The man is weak, only to be afraid of a tough wife, and a weak man, what pride and self-respect?
11, cold eyebrows to in-laws
Being a husband’s greatest fear
12. Empty his energy
Every night the husband “The most important thing is to make sure that your husband’s energy is wasted outside. So night and day, day and cut; strong possessiveness makes these women become irrational lionesses! The most important thing is that you can’t be afraid of your husband.
13. “You’re ignoring me” and “What are you thinking.”
After sex, a man in stress often has a blank mind and loses self-control so that he appears clumsy and overwhelmed, and he must do some simple actions to regain intimacy, and if at that point, the excited woman wants the man to talk as much as she The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
14. “The neighbor got a new car!”
This powerful irritation of hate can make men annoyed and develop an inferiority complex, so individual angry men will blurt out, “The neighbor changed his wife too! ” Many men believe that their finances reflect their intrinsic value because, by making fun of his income, you are actually scorning his ability to be a man.