Not everyone’s love life is smooth, and there may be a lot of “bad guys” around before the right one comes along. If you want to talk about a reliable relationship, then in the face of unexpected entanglement should be clear position, do not roll into a messy and confusing relationship. The first thing you need to do is to make sure that you have the right amount of money.
1. I actually wish I could say this to you, but I can’t lie to people anyway.
It may seem a bit harsh to open with that, and it should actually be immediately obvious to the person what you’re really saying as soon as you say it. But there’s nothing wrong with that. It’s easier to start off with a clear position than to beat around the bush with ambiguity.
2. When I’m with you, I’m relaxed and comfortable, but we just don’t get along.
It’s really rare to meet a friend of the opposite sex that you can completely let go of your guard and get along with naturally, but if you’re too embarrassed to say no because of that, you’re undoubtedly making a wrong move! If you are a person who takes both love and friendship seriously, then you can’t be sloppy when it counts, and it’s important to set the relationship aside, which will also be great for the future direction of your friendships.
3. I don’t think I can give you what you want.
If you’re sure you can’t feel opposite-sex attracted to him and it’s something other than friends, then you might as well be straightforward and tell him the truth. A well-meaning lie or silence is not the appropriate response at this point in time, and know that really warriors dare to Facing up to a dismal life ……
4. I’m not entirely sure how I feel right now, and I don’t want to start a relationship hastily.
This is by far the most subtle response and the least damaging to a hopeful confessor. However, although polite and courteous, the phrase implies a certain risk that the other party may think that there is still hope for success, and if one is patient enough to wait and see and keep trying, there may be a series of persistent courtship moves to follow, and you still can’t really escape the tangle of complicated feelings.
But if you’re also on the fence about him and just can’t be clear about what you really think yet, it’s good to leave room in your answer to prepare for the future of your relationship.
5. I want a plain, ordinary relationship, and a flashy, high-profile plot is not for me.
Some people like to use confession as a surprise to mark the beginning of a relationship, so it will The confession will come out of nowhere when you’re not expecting it or prepared for it, and you should be caught off guard and then moved to tears in the plot they’ve devised, and you end up happily together.
However, reality often doesn’t work out the way it should, and the real situation is that you do feel overwhelmed by his confession, but there will be no next move at all. Remember, if he really isn’t your type, this is the time to make sure you first steady your mind and calmly say the words above.
6. I care about you, but I don’t love you.
This is a polite but direct and clear answer to a confession, which not only takes care of the other party’s feelings properly, but also makes the scene not too awkward and stagnant, and clearly expresses your position. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.