I don’t know if it’s the influence of traditional thinking, but I remember when I was very young, I often heard adults say, “If a man is good at making money, it’s still necessary for the woman in the family to be able to manage the money.” Although this has to do with the closed transportation information and old-fashioned ideas at that time, this mature marriage financial model still has a lot of lessons for us today.
According to some of the marriages I’ve come across, a good portion of their fortunes and misfortunes have to do with their marital finances, and most of their marital finances have a lot to do with their marital money management patterns. The editor roughly incomplete feeling, men earn money to women, and then by the two couples together with the family plan and expenses, this model is the easiest to create harmony and family prosperity. For the reasons, the editor made a simple summary, I would like to think that women in the family must be in charge of money for at least the following five reasons:
One, it is good for men to focus more on making money;
I’m not going to lie, the editor has always been all about making money and not about managing it. The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to the public. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Of course, this can also be said to be my “lazy man’s mind” at play. The company’s main goal is to provide a good solution to the problem.
So, when a man marries a wife, he must marry the right person and get a woman who knows how to run a household and is wise and smart. Otherwise, even if you have a million dollars, you will be exhausted for nothing.
However, it is difficult for men to make money, and it is even more art for women to spend money. Let women manage money, you can match men and women, rational allocation of energy and time resources, each specializing. Men only give women full financial dominance, she is likely to really play the spirit of ownership, fully exploit the potential to use the money to the edge of the knife, to small money for big money. At the same time, the most important point is that the man himself is also likely to put more energy and time to the most valuable career and money. So, the couple interacts, the yin and the yang reflect each other, the division of labor is matched, and the family is in harmony!
Two, balance constrains the equality between husband and wife;
Most men in China have the idea that they want their wives to stay home from work, raise their children, and serve their families. The most important thing is that the man must be in charge of his own financial power. In this way, the editor would like to say a fair word, you do not let women to earn money, money management and spending money and no woman anything, so what do you let women feel safe, and let her feel equal status at home with the hostess? Obviously, such an imbalanced relationship between husband and wife is very detrimental to family happiness and long-term harmony.
Then let’s change our mindset and hand over the financial power of the family to the woman, for one thing, as mentioned above, the man can save his mind and energy, and focus on making money; for another, the woman can also find a little bit of her own master feeling in the family, giving full play to her subjective The first is that men can save their energy, as mentioned above, and focus on making money; the second is that women can find a little bit of their own sense of ownership in the family, give full play to their initiative, balance their minds, and make participation a real motivation to move forward.
Thirdly, it is more conducive to the cohesion of family property;
Men The most important thing is that you have to be able to get a good idea of what you want to do. The actual fact is that you can find out how much money you have in your hand, how much money you spend, where you think, where you do, you can disregard your personal body for a week and not spend a single penny, you can also spend all the money in one day, regardless of the day after the death. I think this is one of the main reasons why I insist on handing over the financial reins to my wife.
I don’t know if most other men are more or less the same as the editor, but men do have to be honest with women about their ability to gather money. And as for men being bad when they have money, we don’t need to say much about that here.
Fourth, it is convenient for women to grasp the movement of men;
Of course The key to women’s money management is that they have to actively fight for it themselves. The right to say and control no one does not want, with money means more say and control. The woman managed the money to fully grasp the man’s movement, and somehow know what situation he is in the career, need help and encouragement. If there is more money, the career is smooth, and is not to give him a wake-up call, let him clear his head, and so on. I think the timeliness of finding these things and the right way to handle them is especially important for marriage and family.
Fifth, the only way for a woman to hold onto the kite string is to manage her money.
This last one may be a bit repetitive from the previous one. But yet it is not quite the same. What the editor emphasizes here is a deeper meaning. Not only does it include the above mastering the movement, but also the meaning of harnessing the husband. Just think, men’s money and economic lifelines are in the hands of women, how can your man become bad, and how bad can become. Even if it is bad, as a woman and what is terrible about it? This is a woman in the marriage must get the benefits of security.