What men appreciate in women at the age of twenty, thirty, forty and fifty is not quite the same, did you know that? This is because a person’s perception changes with age and experience and circumstances, and this is reflected in his appreciation and need for women.
Women always feel the difference between men before and after marriage, but they may not know what men really want behind this difference. The pre-marriage man wants the company of a beautiful, educated and gentle woman, but what about the post-marriage man?
Before marriage: pretty and gentle
Before marriage, a man wants to have
Before marriage, a man wants to have the company of a beautiful, well-read and gentle woman.
Because beautiful, so the “eye”, both pleasing to the eye, but also “beautiful”; because knowledgeable and courteous, must be well educated, cultured, poised, charming as the TV series “also Zhuge Ge” of Ziwei, the man’s face has a light, the heart is also balanced; and the gentle woman is the reason to be well educated, cultured, poised, charming as the TV series “also Zhuge Ge” of Ziwei. Balance; and the reason why the gentle woman is full of masculine man favored, because the woman’s feminine beauty, can make the man too much “just” character to produce a reconciliation, so that the “yin and yang complement each other”, “rigid and soft”. No wonder our mentor Marx most admired the virtues of women is the word “gentle”. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
After marriage: a good wife and mother
After marriage, the man, the woman Not only depend on, but also obey orders. Because there is a good wife at home to care for, so that men deeply feel good to have a home. The home thus becomes the man “resting harbor”, “warm paradise” …… in order to live up to the expectations of his wife, men tend to be more angry in the career, more progress, more outstanding.
As the years go by and men’s careers become successful, the “honeymoon” between husband and wife is no longer a “honeymoon”. Mutual night and day, the novelty is no longer novel, understanding has been understood, thus entering the couple’s relationship “break-in period”. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you want to do.
At this time, men, because of the frequent socialization and increased temptation, are in a different state and behave differently when they face the woman of their choice, regardless of their purpose. One, showing the ideal lofty and not mere mortals, with outstanding professional level to win; second, showing a high degree of talent or learning rich five cars, on the knowledge of astronomy and geography, under the piano and chess, calligraphy and painting, can be said to know everything, everything, as if the ancient and modern, can predict the future; third, showing the language funny and witty, full of humor. Regardless of the three religions and nine streams, or the ancient “house art” topics can be integrated, and speaks. The name says that the noble science, advocate civilization. Even the sensitive topics that women think can also tear off the skin, talk about it, as the words of the pearl, the sound of the ground. The company’s main goal is to provide a platform for the development of a new generation of products.
Extra-marital affairs: a great deal of grace
It is true that talking is talking and acting is acting. The first thing you need to do is to show it. Whenever a man is confronted with feelings of extramarital affairs, there are no more than two situations.
One, as one woman writer described, “Men are dogs, based on their structure, and they go out and pee a few times in their lives, so there’s no need to make a fuss, but he’s still going home anyway, and he’s still loyal, and dogs are loyal.” This passage confirms the world’s evaluation of men: “like the new, not tired of the old.” Some people compare this kind of man’s feelings to a “burrito” that can be divided into several pieces and fall in love with several women at the same time.
Two, the man is purely lustful, the face of different styles, different temperament, different appearance of the woman of choice, always in a different way, different performance reveal envy, a kind of “eating bowl looking at the pot” greed. To be honest, most of the men just stay in the “horny” stage, and did not become a “wolf”, the women around the “respectful”, “as if” the state and a certain distance, will not easily offend her, possession of her. For this kind of “talk not do” men, if you ask him why he likes to appreciate the “pretty girl”? He will be beautiful name: “to keep the mind young.” It seems that the beauty of women has an additional value. For most men, there is no “use value” but also “appreciation value” ……
Women who make him feel warm are his favorites
Open the door and say that men need warm women the most and are most afraid of women who are harsh and not forgiving enough. Mother’s nagging, lover’s pestering, wife’s control, daughter’s pampering, girlfriend’s brutality, female colleagues’ nitpicking, all may be a man’s nightmare. So, men look forward to the warm and soft tolerance from women. With this tolerance, men will certainly be complacent, but it is also easy to settle down and can enjoy the so-called sense of achievement with the innate childishness. Men don’t always need motivation.
Sassy girls, used to fall in love, still fresh and exciting, but with its marriage, 99% of the men expressed their respect and insensitivity, after all, we are to live a life, imagine sleeping with a woman who is immobile and rough, that is worse than playing cards with the Empress Dowager Cixi! The man emotionally smuggled, always like to excuse that there is a shrew at home, and have not heard, a man will be sad to say to his lover, the mouth of the house is too gentle, unless he is really sick or owed flat.
The dance of Yang Guifei and her language on the dragon bed, which is the most sumptuous warmth; when Kangxi is bothered by the government, he would like most to go to the woman named Rong Fei to talk and have a bowl of iced sugar lotus seed soup… The Chinese emperor, who had hundreds of women, was in the best position to talk about what kind of women were the best, and if he had to use one word to sum it up, it was “warm women”.
What kind of woman is warm
Warm women are not just She is healthy, she enjoys, she is pampered, and she is not lacking in any of them. At the same time, she will not be forked and cursing, not complaining, not nagging, not like a thief to prevent the husband, not to mention in front of outsiders to blame her husband …… warm is not no opinion “good”, but a beautiful temperament, warmth to make men comfortable, more so The woman is comfortable.
A warm woman may confiscate the cigarette from your hand, but she will also get up in the middle of the night to watch Beckham play soccer with you. The “sacrifice” is not her bible, do “good self” is her first cultivation. She has a small kombucha for a small woman, and high heels for a strong woman, and a noble forehead for a middle-class lady. …… She touches you with her body heat, and she supports you with her soul.
It’s as if our education in the past was missing this lesson – how to be a very attractive and warm woman? We taught them how to be virtuous and introverted, which was too depressing; we later encouraged them how to divide the success map and career cake with men, which in turn tired them …… only did not remind them to be a warm oriental charm sexy woman, pleasing themselves and then others.
Knowing what a man wants, what can you do? The first thing you should do is to try to become what he likes. The most important thing is not to lose yourself. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.