As the internet permeates our lives, when it comes to preventing a mistress, you can’t just prevent a mistress in real life, you have to prevent an electronic mistress. This kind of mistress is more insidious and difficult to detect, while the level of ambiguity is skyrocketing.
They send “kiss” emojis when they chat, they meet in games to fight and practice, and they say good night to each other on MSN every night before they go to bed. …… in your belly resentment, but he justifiably said: “We did not happen anything.” The other way around, you are accused of being too tightly controlled not to let him have the space to loosen up and interfere with his right to make friends. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Why men are prone to cybersex
Being honest is the cornerstone of online dating. Studies have shown that people who are more open in real life are just as open online without question. In the course of your friendly interaction with each other can be sincere and honest, revealing each other’s joys and sorrows, releasing each other’s passion and gentleness. The two sides of the online love can make the collection of bright and open-minded flash; frankness can make the two sides of the online love to harvest the grains of habit; frankness can make the two sides of the online love to pack the seeds of retreat behavior; frankness can make the two sides of the online love to collect the fruit of erudition and good feelings.
Relaxing online is the best way to express your emotions, and the twisted stalemates of yesteryear are here to get a reckless expression. Two people who are chatting like crazy are the most relaxed. The relaxation can make the online love both “sky high let birds fly, the sea wide with fish leap.” Relaxation is not only the relaxation of the hands and feet, but also the relaxation of the mood, relaxation of the nerves, relaxation of the blood. Relaxation makes the two sides of online dating boldly unveil each other’s “mystery” and share with each other “language, sound, expression” of sensory stimulation and comfort. The relaxation of online dating is incredible as the two parties share each other’s spiritual meals and spiritual food.
This is what men say about it
1. I can understand the girl’s This mentality, but I want her to come directly to me and ask me if she’s unsure, not secretly check me behind my back.
2. Online friends are general friends, and I know what’s important. The company’s main goal is to provide a platform for the development of a new generation of companies.
3. Two people together every day makes me feel like I’m being forced to face reality all the time. Talking to people I don’t know every now and then is a way for me to shift my thinking.
What about the men around me who have flings with other women online
One, don’t think about divorce or separation. Now the evidence is not enough. Because the two people in the online just ambiguous, as long as there and online dating meeting, (light meeting is not counted, there is sympathy, not necessarily love), there must be “living together” things happen, need to grab the first-hand evidence to be useful, otherwise, the evidence is insufficient, both deepen the emotional rift between the two sides, the court did not see “The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Two, some netizens can only be described as “talk to relieve boredom” stage, belong to the online to meet some of their own psychological needs. This may be related to your love experience, mutual no common language. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Three, does he have any other hobbies besides the Internet? Does this hobby get him off the computer? Do you have any hobbies that can attract him? If there is nothing, it will be harder for you to keep him from going online. Can you find a way to ask another person (or make up a screen name for yourself) to talk to him? The internet blows more meat than that old woman and is more attractive, the idea pulls him over and completely leaves him/her empty to empty, and there are examples of this success on some movies.
Fourth, you should not be sentimental, there are many people in society who are satisfied with the online world like this, probably caused by the emptiness of real life, you should understand this situation, as long as it is not out of the ordinary, not excessive, allow him a certain amount of freedom. If the money spent more than a thousand dollars (which should be linked to your family’s economic conditions to see), it is very serious, it is likely that the other party is playing with him, in cheating him, such things are also quite a lot. You should pay attention to the movement, you can also take the initiative to express interest in this big sister, want to get to know her, and contact her, and properly remind your husband to prevent online scams.
Lastly, be confident in yourself. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Action plan: Here’s what smart women do
< Don’t be a grass-roots woman
Using social tools to make friends is indeed a common way to make friends these days, and if you are a grass-roots woman because of it, not only will you make him feel untrusted The most important thing is that you will also have to worry about it. What you need to observe is whether he begins to be perversely addicted to a particular thing, such as whether he must play a certain game every day, whether he must use chat tools at a fixed time …… or even whether he has developed to the extent of meeting offline. If there is a steady “dating” going on, you can’t just sit back and do nothing.
Do be a good lover
Don’t just blame someone else. On the flip side, why bother with the invisible virtual lover when he has a good one right next to him? The best way is to do more of what couples should do when they are together with him. For example, develop some common hobbies, create some romance in your normal life, and pay attention to keep your heart in communication. The most unwise thing to do is to try and warm up your relationship to keep it fresh, and a good relationship between you is the strongest barrier against outside aggression.
Don’t be a peeping Tom
Of course you’ll say that e-voyeurism is so nebulous, how can you find evidence of it without “exploration”? But voyeurism is really not a wise move. There is a saying that the reason why men will go cheating is because male animals naturally like that test of intelligence and full of exciting challenges. If he finds out what you’re doing, and he starts using counter-measures, and you two end up in a “cat and mouse” game of hide and seek, is that a good solution?
Does have a point
Sometimes men really don’t know that you’re angry. Most of them think that virtual flirting is just harmless “fun” and don’t even think it can be called “flirting”. If you really care about it, why not just tell him? This will make you feel hurt and prevent him from getting ahead of himself. After communication, it is his sincerity and your tolerance that needs to be considered.
A man is like a child who will always do something out of place at one time or another. So, women have to be like parents and patiently guide him back to the right path. For the electronic junior, do not worry nor fear, and do not be too decisive so as not to really drive him away. Look at the situation clearly before taking action.