When it comes to marrying someone, many people will say they want a mature man so that the man will know how to cherish you and be considerate of you. In the end how to know if he is a mature man? Here are eleven ways to tell if your guy is a man or a boy!
Boys v.s men are very different
“Big boys are cute, but men who never grow up aren’t necessarily lovable.”
1. Men know what they want and are brave enough to go after it
Boys may have a vague idea of what they want, but don’t really know. A boy doesn’t think too much when making decisions, and even if he gets going, he doesn’t put much thought into the pursuit. In short, the boy is passive, while the man is active in fighting for what he wants.
2. Men plan for their future and are working hard to lay the foundation for marriage and family
2. align:left;”>The boy is living in the moment, and he’s just planning which bar to go to this weekend.
3. Men like women who are smart and will support him
Also he will choose a partner who has similar values to his own. And boys only have eyes for the hottest, wildest girls.
4. When a man meets a good woman, he will approach her and get to know her
If it’s a boy, he’ll just test the waters to see what you want, not pursue you seriously.
5. Men are willing to talk about topics that would embarrass them
He is very honest about his position and intentions. The boy refuses to talk about his true feelings, and the boy is not prepared to address such dilemmas, instead avoiding them or finding excuses to hide the fact that he is really just playing around with you.
6. Men know how to give themselves wholeheartedly to a woman
A boy is always “testing” you – he won’t be completely serious about you because he doesn’t know if he’s really ready. But in reality, because he’s just a boy, no matter how good a girl he meets, he’s never going to be ready for the day.
7. Men know how to live and socialize well
Men Usually busy with their careers or jobs, but also know how to live well. The boy, on the other hand, spends every weekend getting drunk at the bar with his friends.
8. Men take time to think about the person they want to be
or doesn’t want to be a certain kind of person anymore. He will ponder where his values lie. But on the other hand, the boy has not yet established his own values or morals, and ideas are often changing.
9. Men are much more decent than boys
Men rarely The man’s word is not true, and most of what he says really means what he thinks; the man does what he says, and if he doesn’t keep his promise, he’ll be honest and tell you why. Boys often promise, but don’t often really deliver.
10. Men are afraid of rejection, but not at all afraid to try
The boy is also afraid of being sent a nice card, but always likes to act like he doesn’t care because he’s more afraid of having his self-esteem bruised by you.
11. Boys may play with your feelings, but men don’t
Men are generally responsible and don’t play with their feelings as a joke.