Love has a sweet and noisy time, just the right amount of bickering or harmless feelings, but if it is too much, it is easy to lead to the breakup of the relationship, the following 4 taboos, the young couples should understand clearly.
One, losing self-esteem for love
Story replay: In One dusk in a rainstorm, Xiao Min could not wait for a cab and she stood in despair. Suddenly a cab stopped and the driver rolled down the window and said, “The gentleman in the car said he could give you a ride.” The man in the car drove her from the east of the city to the west of the city, and it was during this journey that Minnie met love.
Min had always thought that this man, five years younger than her, was a gift from God. Minnie was so infatuated with him that she had almost no self-respect. In love, she naturally took over the baton of caring for him from his mother, starting with washing a pair of socks for him and progressing to laundry, washing sheets, cleaning the house, taking out the trash, cooking dinner, and finally upgrading to full-time babysitting.
While her boyfriend is increasingly inseparable from Minnie’s care, his eyes are fixed more on talented women who are not adept at cleaning rooms but are elegant in their conversation. Minnie felt that the mountain of love was coming for her.
Expert Guidance
Men and women work together, and everyone on earth knows it. Everyone knows that. If everything is arranged, it is less fun to interact, easy to exhaust yourself, and psychological imbalance will be created, and the imbalance will naturally quarrel. He or she does not appreciate, you will be more sad. Two people share the work, rather than two people together. The best way to do this is to make sure that you have a good understanding of the situation.
What men want in a woman – a noblewoman in the living room, a housewife in the kitchen …… When one person is playing multiple roles, it’s best to stop there. The best thing is that you don’t have to be so involved every time. The key is to pick and choose what you like to do.
Two, often gambling on breakups
Story replay. “You’re bored, so break up!” Zhao Juan angrily slammed down the phone, silently counting the numbers in her heart, waiting for the boyfriend on the other end of the phone to dial again to beg forgiveness. Each time a fight to break up, he must be the first to apologize to her, kind words to coax her. But this time it was a little different. Half an hour has passed and the phone has never rung. Zhao Juan was anxious and had a vague sense of foreboding.
Till the next day, her boyfriend still didn’t call, and it seemed he was serious this time. What to do? The first time she was so aggressive and aggressive to hang up on people, she had to take the initiative to make peace, where to put face. If he gets a taste of the sweetness of a tough attitude, and every argument in the future is tough to the end, then she will not be more miserable? The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to the market.
Through time, the two had an open and honest conversation, and Zhao Juan realized that the other side was also upset at the time. Because she asked for a breakup over and over again, he couldn’t figure out which time she was real and which time she was not, and that last time he thought she had really given up.
Expert Guidance
No matter how much in love lovers have fights, there are times when they are angry. The most important thing is that you have to be angry and break up. You have to know that love is the acceptance of the whole aspect. The first thing you need to do is to be able to accept each other’s flaws, not change them.
If you lose your true love in the heat of the moment, it’s easy to be unsure when you go back into a new relationship. If your love is still redeemable, why can’t you let your love continue to bloom like a flower, burning with a beautiful passion? If you are in love with him/her and the fault lies with you, you can let go of the so-called face and compromise for once and give the other person a chance to be touched.
Three, Desire as Love
Story Rewind: Lili is the financial director of a real estate company. a financial director of a real estate company with a very stressful and responsible job. Her boyfriend, a small civil servant, never seemed to appreciate the workplace pressures she was under, and just went about all the chores of their upcoming marriage without worry. His perfect concept of love is to keep a home with two people living happily together. The company’s main focus was on the development of a new product that would be a good fit for the company.
Later, at a health club, Lily met a bodybuilding trainer. He had a toned body, plenty of energy, thoughtful and gentle words, and everything seemed so perfect, even in bed. Lily thought she had found true love.
But after 3 months together, Lily finally realized that this man loved her body, and she loved his body. Just like the swipe machine, when not to flush each other’s bodies anymore, when to stop pouring outward. However, it was too late. She had his child, but he disappeared and even changed his cell phone number.
Expert Guidance
Why love has become fragile, because The distance of love, which has deviated from the healthy track, is no longer the distance from one heart to another heart, but the distance from one desire to another desire. Faced with sex, silly women will always go to extremes, thinking that love him should be impatient to give themselves. And in fact, men will hold on to women they care about and love for a while, and they like to have a challenging game of pursuit.
If you give yourself away, you are lowering your status in his mind. So, when you find yourself still skeptical of his love, stop him from continuing to unclothe you.
Four: Suspicious and indiscriminate suspicion
Story replay. Liu Xin’er and her boyfriend are a childhood friend pair, because they know each other too well and there is no hint of mystery between them. When the issue of marriage is about to be put on the agenda, Liu Xin’er is unsure instead. In order to prove whether he was sincere to her, Liu Xin’er undertook a series of tests.
At a friend’s party, she would deliberately ask another friend of the opposite sex to take her home, and her boyfriend would at best raise his head and ask her to give him a call when she arrived home. Sometimes they went shopping together and received a phone call, Liu Xin’er immediately excused that a friend had an important matter to her, the result is that the boyfriend never asked whether it was a man or a woman, and let her go with alacrity. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to its customers.
Last month, it was Liu Xin’er’s birthday. She just got home that day and saw a circle of candles already on the birthday cake on the table. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to the public, such as the Internet, the Internet, and the Internet.
Liu Xin’er looked at him and couldn’t help but cry, “You still care about me.” The boyfriend asked her why she said that. The company’s main goal is to provide a good solution to the problem of the problem. Liu Xin’er immediately broke into tears and laughed.
Expert Guidance
Love her (him) and trust her (him). . Love has neither a preservative nor a foolproof insurance. If you don’t believe in him or her, don’t you believe in your own vision? But if you really don’t trust him (her), then instead of being suspicious, it is better to spend more time together. Or travel together, discover each other together, get to know each other and get more comfortable with each other. You’ll have to test him/her over time to see if he/she is your true love. ……