Today there are more and more older women who are single, because many modern women have become financially independent and no longer work as hard as women did in the old days, so they are more cautious about getting married, and accidentally step into the ranks of the leftover women.
After being asked a million times “why are you still single”, I’m sure you’ve already forged a reason (or reasons) that even you believe. But, are things really the way you want them to be? The following reasons sound reasonable, but each of them has a hard wound. So don’t blame them for your singleness, it could be your greatest bragging rights.
Reason: It’s hard to marry a woman who is too good for you
When you start to achieve success in your career, you’ll be able to do it with ease. When you start to achieve success in your career and deal with your single life with ease, someone will always jump in and tell you that all your hard work and success is actually the culprit that is preventing you from finding true love.
So we’re told by so-called “experts” to learn to be “weak little women” and to be in front of men The first thing you need to do is to play dumb and keep your head down, never let him think you’re better than him, even if you’re studying for a PhD, you have to play a hollow vase in front of his friends …… until you want to smack yourself: why am I trampling myself?
Of course, there are some men with unique tastes who favor defenseless, freakish women, but are these men really strong enough for themselves? The reason for this is not to “show that you are weak”, but to “show the beautiful softness and vulnerability”, which simply means – I am strong, so only a stronger man can conquer me.
Reason: Too picky to find a boyfriend
Family or friends
A family member or friend says, “You’re too picky,” and you can’t get it out of your stomach if you’re single.
I’m not looking for how handsome he is, how tall he is, how much money he makes with a car or a house, I just want to find a man who I can communicate with happily as a friend and with whom I have the urge to sleep, but everyone says I’m too demanding! When you pass the tenth blind date, people around you finally angry, they think you are too picky, as if you should only have three criteria for the line of eligibility: male, live, single. The reason for your displeasure only highlights your narrow-mindedness and short-sightedness: his mediocre career means he is honest and reliable; he always puts his mother’s words on his lips to show that he is filial and conscientious; as for the first dinner but also with you AA, it only shows that he possesses the virtue of frugality and keeping house.
But just because our bottom line takes a back seat doesn’t mean we have no principles! How are we being picky? So the next time someone blames you for passing on an unreliable blind date, why not say back to him/her that such a good man deserves a more discerning woman?
Reason: You don’t understand gender relationships
Most media and The so-called gender experts like to describe dating as a sporting competition – and because of factors such as physiology, psychology, social opinion and cultural traditions, women are usually the losers, while single men are the biggest winners, with a constant stream of invitations and the great freedom of singleness, as if they were the best of all worlds.
Over time, the girls have all become defensive players with lots of heart. The company’s main goal is to provide a good solution to the problem. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. Well, based on the results of years of inculcation in dating guides, nine times out of ten this girl will turn her head and walk away next.
But have you ever thought that maybe there’s no hidden agenda and it’s really just that careless guy who accidentally forgot?
What you really need to do is ask yourself seriously, “All in all, how does this person make me feel?” A hasty judgment and an impulsive decision may cause you to pass by with your Mr. Right. Even if you have a thousand things to say, the most you can do is give yourself a mental wake-up call and give him a small demerit.
While the scheming girls who know the rules of the game will always get a guy’s attention, it’s the simplest and most open relationships that really go down well.
Reason: There’s no room for men in your life
You’re on The tiktok show food show travel show marathon show charity charity sale, your life colorful friends colorful youth no dead end, and so on – if you accidentally forget to stop dad and mom, I believe they will not be as happy as your friends for your message praise it. The second oldest will not be sad to think: who will dare to harness this crazy like woman!
Those girls have a great life even when they’re single, and a rich social life is what means throwing yourself into the light to be found! If a man is deterred by your exciting lifestyle, it only means he is a cheapskate who is not strong enough at heart, a man you wouldn’t value.
Reason: Being obsessed with work makes men sick of it
Work Too busy to fall in love, lack of single men of the right age in your environment, the nature of your career makes it hard to stabilize …… feed, either hurry up and get a new job and complain that a career that gives you financial income and security is affecting your happiness, is that good?
Please look around. The company’s business is a very important part of the company’s business. Your colleagues and you are engaged in the same work, contact the same customers, but they are not all leftover men and women unclaimed, right? The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
So don’t complain that your job is blocking you from getting married, it’s the best channel that will give you unlimited opportunities and possibilities. As for what to do? In addition to “treating all the men around you like men”, you can learn more from your colleagues who are happy in love.
What if people around you are forcing you to get married?
Say what you want before they force you to marry
While the seven great aunts and eight great uncles are still talking, hurry up and make demands with them, such as, “My dream man must be a gaijin hero, I hope he will come to marry me with his golden armor and holy clothes and feet on the seven-colored auspicious clouds.” Hearing this, a number of red maids know the majority of difficulties and retreat. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to its customers.
Faking a breakup
When you’re a fresh pair of Chi Chi tragic tragic tragic cut The first thing you need to do is to get back home in a state of disillusionment, and nine times out of ten your family will not stimulate you with emotional problems at this time. But remember, don’t get too caught up in the drama, lest your parents worry too much about you; and don’t stay sad for too long, or they might say, “Should we hurry up and find a man to help distract you ……
Find a temporary boyfriend
This is a tried and true classic in the singles world. It’s not uncommon for people to take real action to temporarily shut up the crowd; one way or another, it’s not uncommon for people to fake it!
If a man says, “You’re too nice,” it’s just a cover for his own lack of excellence. The first thing you need to do is to be confident and find a man who is right for you.