Recently a piece of news has caused great concern among netizens: the number of divorcees in China has increased for 12 years in a row, especially the phenomenon of young people getting married in a flash. why? The right person is the basis, the heart to take care of is also very important. How to think about each other well in life, to avoid a variety of small problems, in order to get along better, to face life in harmony. I hope that there are lovers who will eventually grow old together with their sons.
1, avoid arguing in front of outsiders
Couples in life It is inevitable that they will bump into each other, but they should be careful not to argue in front of a large audience. Some problems will not be solved by arguing in front of people, but will add fuel to the fire. In front of the crowd, both sides are sure to save face, not willing to show weakness, often resulting in the final situation difficult to clean up. Therefore, good wives should remember: in front of friends and family, to leave enough face to your lover. Your attitude towards your lover determines the level of respect others have for him. If you don’t care about him, others will despise him.
2. Don’t talk about divorce lightly
Two people came together to form a family. It’s not easy to have a family, so don’t say the word “divorce” lightly. Especially if you are arguing about divorce, you will inevitably make the wrong choice and regret it for the rest of your life due to your impulsiveness. “Divorce” is a very sensitive word, the reckless mention of these words is very dangerous, it is easy to tear the emotional ties between the couple, intensify family conflicts. It is no longer a matter of two people, but a whole, do not easily say give up.
3. Avoid denying lifestyle habits
Everyone grows up in a different environment The habits of life are bound to be different. Many stupid women always take their own habits as the standard and then try to get their husbands to change according to their habits. The actual fact is that you will not be able to change your habits overnight, especially when there are a lot of details that you can’t change. The most important thing is that your habits are not necessarily the right ones, so why deny each other’s habits wholesale?
4. Avoid comparing him to other men
If you If you praise another man in front of him, he will feel looked down upon and taunted, which will make him apprehensive. So try to compare your husband to other men as little as possible, and make him feel better about himself than other men.
5. Avoid saying things that hurt each other
Many people argue often speak out of turn, and often compare their husbands with others’.” Look at how capable other people’s husbands are, and you, you’re such a loser!” …… These words will only destroy the other person’s self-confidence. If you really love each other, you have to refuse to hurt each other!