It seems that in China, the older a woman is, the more her family worries that she won’t be able to get married. The newest and most popular of these is the “marriage of convenience”.
The simple phrase “I don’t want to settle” in “He Yisheng Xiaomei” restores the most original look of love, love is love, and if you don’t love, you can’t cater to it. “The actual fact is that the actual person who has been in the world is the one who has been in the world, the other people will become the one who will settle, and I don’t want to settle.” He Yichen gently said this sentence, became how many viewers and readers of the love motto. The most precious thing about love is that it is a true love that does not want to settle.
We are used to getting married with the wind, and in reality, our insistence becomes idiotic
We are used to what others do I also do, always without asking why. Others fall in love with me, others get married I also want to get married, others have a house and a car, so I want to buy a house and a car. The majority of people do not even think about the meaning of marriage and walk into the cage, and finally the building is surrounded by the city, the scenery in front of people, and the sadness after people.
Love cannot be settled, and marriage should not be settled
“Isn’t that what life is all about? The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. Such a life is often full of delays, unprincipled compromises, speculation, helplessness and entanglement, and a glance at the end. It’s not that settling is not possible, but at what point you can settle must be thought out. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
But loving someone doesn’t require settling, and marrying someone shouldn’t require settling. Love and marriage should be for the perfection of self-life, the improvement of life quality, because two love each other, desire to be together, desire to live with each other, have children and grow old together slowly. It is not because of loneliness, or because of age, or concerns about the eyes from parents and society.
The settling down in love and marriage is all-encompassing, from the rice, oil, salt, soy, vinegar and tea, to the external social interactions, to the smallest bedside pillow and ear to ear. The actual fact is that you will be able to get a lot more than just a couple of hours to get a lot more than just a couple of hours. In the relationship that will be, what was intimate and beautiful contact, may also become as hard as being raped. To put it bluntly, even if it’s a one-night stand, we say goodbye in the morning and don’t see each other again. The long term relationship, the head does not see the head, want to get rid of are not easy. It’s harder than being alone when you have someone in front of you, but you can’t communicate mentally.
You can’t bet on marriage to please someone else, and there’s no point in feeling guilty about refusing a blind date or forced marriage
The reason why the persistence of “not wanting to settle” is so moving is because it is not common in reality. Many of us settle for less, often because of pressure from our parents and society. Parents want their children to be happy, so they subject them to matchmaking and marriage. However, the standard of happiness is not the same, a generation has a generation of different pursuits, feudal society are parents’ orders matchmakers, the planned economy and the organization of the introduction of rationed marriage. And the times have changed, do we have to wear new shoes and walk the old path?
Many people feel guilty about going against their parents’ wishes and have to settle for dating, marrying and loving in a condescending manner. But I would like to say, why should we feel guilty? You are an independent individual, not an appendage of your parents. The first thing you need to do is to get married, which is an important event throughout your life, even if you don’t talk about love, it will always affect your life.
While we are still laughing at leftover women, Japanese women have already taken their own step
Many women see marriage as their lifelong goal, and their life cannot be complete until they get married one day. But when married, the goal of life has been achieved, and she does not know what to do, but to obediently submit to that man, to become the man’s appendage, so-and-so’s wife, but no one will remember what this wife is called.
While the Chinese are still laughing at leftover women, Japan is already preaching the way of “not getting married” and is never ashamed of it. The Japanese author, Fumio Yamamoto, has written several interesting works, including “Poisoned by Love”, “Then I’m Alone”, “So What if I’m 31? and “All the women in the world are getting married? . This is not to advocate that every woman should not get married, but even if they do not get married, women can still live beautifully with their heads held high. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
From the perspective of the traditional division of labor, modern women no longer need to trap themselves with marriage, and many women are beginning to choose to give up their comfortable lives at home after marriage and continue to live their beauty in their careers. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to the public, such as the Internet, the Internet, and the Internet.
The choice is personal, you can choose what you love or what others want you to love
Love and marriage have nothing in common. Too much in common, the only thing to consider is whether it has made both people better. A good person makes you gain the world, a bad person makes you lose the whole world. Marriage, with whom and why, is a very important thing, not someone to say how the age to be how. In fact, the point is not to tie the knot or not to tie the knot, but the attitude towards this matter.
Compared to a whole complicated life, love is actually insignificant, we don’t have to create illusions, if one person is happy, one person, and it doesn’t matter what other people think, the most important thing in the world is love and marriage. There are so many irrational factors in love, and marriage is precisely the one thing that requires a rational choice. Each person’s definition of happiness is different, so the choice of life is different, will not settle also lies in personal choice. You can choose what you love, or what others want you to love.