Good girls are often already “in the game”. And such good women are often more able to capture the hearts of single men. The most important thing is that you have to be able to get the best out of your life.
1.1. Think you are better suited for girls and better able to give them happiness.
A 31-year-old male said, “When I hear a girl I like complain about her boyfriend, it always makes me feel like I’m the one who’s right for her and that I can make her happier. That makes it even less likely to give up.”
To better understand the male psyche, many girls choose to confide in their male friends about their relationship troubles. This tends to stir up the male friend’s sense of self-superiority, thinking “I’m the right one, I can bring you happiness.”
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A 28-year-old man said, “When I hear that a girl is still sweet with her boyfriend whom she has been dating for a long time, it makes me think that such a girl who is single-minded about love is so nice! Unknowingly, I’m attracted to it.”
Women who are single-minded about love are very attractive, and being sweet with a long-term boyfriend makes single men think, “She’s a good girl, and if I date her, she’ll be single-minded about me, too. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you want. And that’s why they like her.
3. Natural physical contact causes the heart to beat faster.
A 26-year-old man said, “Women who have boyfriends are less wary of other men and have more physical contact with other men. For example, they will touch each other’s shoulders when greeting each other, or stand up on my shoulder when drinking at a banquet. Natural physical contact such as this can make one’s heart beat faster.”
Many women who are in a relationship have the mentality that “I already have a boyfriend, he won’t see me as a relationship partner” and therefore don’t care much about physical contact with other men. In fact, guys think the opposite.
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A 30-year-old man said, “I ran into a co-worker on the street during vacation who was shopping with her boyfriend. She was dressed up prettier than usual, and I’ve never seen her like that. The gentle gaze that only shows in front of her boyfriend captivated me.”
Women who keep their faces taut at work show a gentle expression they don’t normally see, a stark contrast from the usual that is more likely to make men’s hearts beat faster.
5. Think you’ll have fun with her.
A 34-year-old man said, “Hearing a girl happily describe a date with her boyfriend makes you feel unconsciously that you will be happy with her. ”
In cases like this, single men tend to start envisioning a date with this girl and thus fall in love with her.