After marriage, men and women face all kinds of temptations, once they can’t hold their emotions, they will be deep in the embarrassing situation of extramarital love, which is usually a trap, the deeper you fall, in the end will make yourself full of wounds and nothing! So, how can a woman keep her attraction after marriage without being tied down by a man?
Way #1: Give your lover more space
The union of the sexes is a union of emotions, life, and the relationship of the two sexes. It is a union of feelings and life, not a dissolution of personalities and personalities, and the two sides are not each other’s shadow, so don’t be forced to be inseparable. Otherwise, just like eating constantly will make people lose their appetite, sticking together all the time will also make people lose interest. The relationship between a man and a woman is only partially fixed in common, and both can each have their own friends and hobbies and can have more to talk about.
There are times to be apart, and then there are times to miss each other. Give each other a distance, a space to long for, to wait with tenderness. Therefore, the appropriate small parting, increase the freshness between the couple. As the saying goes, “a small goodbye is better than a new marriage”, psychologically speaking, this is due to the artificial distance, so that each other in each other’s mind’s image has a new and evergreen. The distance between the two is a virtuous effect, in the sense that without distance there is no freedom, without distance there is no attraction, and the interval of time and space tends to increase the intensity of love.
A few people have difficulty accepting their lover’s normal interactions with the opposite sex, and are always worried that one day they will be “squeezed out”, so they often do something foolish: their lover takes a phone call from the opposite sex or a friend of the opposite sex comes to their home, or they ask around the corner about people The result of this is that it is never possible to win the attraction of the other party, but on the contrary, the person often puts himself in the position of being indifferent.
Think of it this way: What love is there to be had when “possession” is so strained, so tense, so guarded?
How much love is there in a marriage that is kept under guard? Love is first of all a conscious and voluntary feelings, is a strong attraction to each other, is push can not be pushed, cut also can not be cut off the implication. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Way 2: Look for yourself, look for those who like you
Love of beauty is human nature. The most important thing to remember is that it is the nature of people, both men and women. The couple, after marriage, should prevent the pre-marital mood and ambition from becoming lost in the stereotypical, repetitive chores and the blandness of living together day and night. It is important to pay attention to grooming, especially after a woman has become a family member, and never consider devotion and sacrifice to the family as her only meaning and obligation in life, neglecting the richer pursuits of life.
Diving headlong into the kitchen, playing the role of “mom”, becoming unmotivated or unkempt, becoming old and dull. Even in middle age, even after entering old age, due to the physiological reasons of men and women, men’s charm period longer than women, when more subjective efforts are needed, with deeper love and new understanding, to seek common ground between the two sides, to reinvent their own style. No one can be a permanent red amount, but “although there is a loss of innate beauty, artificial beauty is sufficient to compensate”, decent light makeup and clothing, coupled with dignity and elegance and deep, generous, still give people a sense of radiance. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Way 3: Have more humor
Being understanding is the only way to The two love affairs may be promoted. In the face of the complicated social life, especially in the family life of pots and pans and other trivial things, sometimes it really needs more courage to bear the difficulties and the ability to manage life. Humor in the family, can reduce the psychological pressure, especially the humorous language in the life of the couple, can often provoke the emotional waves. Because humor is a symbol of perseverance, calmness, wisdom, competence, and is a reconciler of family conflicts.
The above three ways to keep couples attracted to each other may seem commonplace and simple, but they actually speak to the mystery of how couples get along: understanding, tolerance, and love. It’s not easy to do, and it’s a lesson that couples need to learn together.