Cheating scum is always abhorrent, and no woman wants to be conned by such a man. So, what can be done to pull out the cheating scum? These small details may help you:
Detail 1: Phone
1. When the phone rings, he carefully checks the caller’s number and answers without allowing the other party to say anything more before quickly telling them, “I’ll call you later.”
2. When answering the phone, he grunts and grunts perfunctorily while secretly pressing the volume control (usually the earpiece volume control is located on the side of the phone, which is very easy to adjust when answering a call).
3. Usually turns his phone off when he goes out with you; you call him and often find him turning it off for no reason.
4. Rejects calls with a highly unnatural expression and tells you, “A very troublesome client.”
5. The habit of answering the phone on the side of the ear farther away from you, whether driving or walking alongside you on the road.
6. Some calls he answers in front of you in a big way, and some calls he answers in another room or a bit away from you.
The above five items, if you can be right three or more (including three), you can almost 100% conclude that this is a cheating man, the first three of which are the most critical evidence.
Detail Two: Dating Judgment
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2. Late for a date on a major or sensitive holiday such as Valentine’s Day, or leave early with an excuse, or even just stand you up.
3. Refusing to plan a distant date, like when you ask him if he’s free next Sunday after this week’s date and he says thoughtfully, “We’ll see about that then.”
4. He can’t be reached by phone, twitter, or MSN, and when he shows up again, he says he’s in a bad mood.
5. Can’t be with you after work or on weekends, and every date ends almost at the same time.
6. Doesn’t book you in advance and suddenly asks for a date with you; however, when you swoop in, he always has a reason to refuse.
The above six items may appear occasionally because you are indeed busy at work or have a friend’s appointment at the moment, but are more suspicious if they appear in turn. The last two appear more frequently, it is possible that the man you are dating is not only cheating, but is married or has a regular live-in partner.
Detail 3: Go to his home and explore infinitely
1. Look at the whole — A single man’s home that is too clean can be a primary suspect, especially if even the quilts and sheets are as neat and tidy as new and have things like doll toys or pretty little vases.
But if he’s a doctor or a virgin by profession, the suspicion is discounted because they’re probably just clean men and not a gilded house. If the home is so simply furnished that even a change of clothes is pathetic, then he probably has another home.
2. Check the key – Generally speaking, if a woman visits often, he will pay more attention to the texture of the bed and the color and quality of the bedding.
3. Look at the key – the bathroom must be used as a key inspection position. Single men rarely place a trash can next to the toilet in the bathroom. You may also find among them sanitary pads, bath flowers, body wash (according to the survey, men rarely buy body wash, unless it is a unit of welfare). The number of ladies’ cleaning products, slippers, towels and toothbrushes on the wash rack speaks volumes, and you can see it at a glance just by going to the bathroom.
If your relationship is going well, find out where his house is and make sure he’s home, kill him downstairs as fast as you can, call and say you happened to be passing by and wanted to come up and take a look. The bottom of the foot. The first thing you need to do is to get a pair of eyes on your girlfriend, and less misunderstandings about the peach blossoms coming to your door.
Detail 4: Judging by his circle
1. His good A colleague or a good friend has a foot in two boats or a confusing relationship between men and women, and you say behind his back that the man is shameless, and he doesn’t think so, or even loses his temper.
2. He hangs out with colleagues or friends, and occasionally someone jokes with him about a girl’s name, and he is uncharacteristically angry or makes a dark wink.
3. When introducing you to his circle, he says your name directly and not your relationship with him.
You can pick relatively nice, solid-hearted people among his friends as your main targets. Occasionally gently pour out your hidden worries: “Yesterday a friend of mine said he saw him watching a movie with another girl at the cinema, how do you think that’s possible?” “I often dream that he is with someone else, are dreams the opposite of reality?”
If the person is dry enough to tell you not to worry about anything and list his many good qualities, you can put your heart in your stomach for now. If the person’s words flicker and they don’t want to answer, there’s a problem.
It’s easier to get the truth from his colleagues, friends’ girlfriends or wives, go with the flow of the relationship, stick out your radar to keenly catch the information that hits your door, and don’t pry too much so you don’t touch a woman’s curiosity and artificially stink up his reputation.
Detail 5: Look at the line to know the man
1. Suddenly become love Look in the mirror and complain that there is nothing to wear in the closet.
2. You used to buy clothes for him, but now he suddenly brings back new clothes of dubious origin, explaining that they were given to him by a client, handed out at a meeting, or just happened to pass by a mall.
3. The style of dressing has changed significantly, especially the quality of underwear, which used to be worn when the underwear was torn, but now is not. He even changed his underwear to brand new ones overnight, and the style is quite fashionable and sexy.
4. On the surface, nothing has changed, but small personal items such as socks, towels, ties, briefcases, razors, drinking glasses, etc. have been “refreshed” for a short time. “New look”.
5. One or two days a week, he dresses himself extraordinarily well. Invariably almost at the end of the day, you receive a call for leave on time. The reasons are as follows: working late, spending time with clients, meeting old classmates.
The premise of a man’s qualitative change to see the line is that you are already very familiar with him and know his personality and past dress preferences. If you have been in a relationship for more than six months, then the sudden change in his line is obviously not because of you.
It’s understandable that women fall in love and “transform” themselves for their own good, and this can be very evident in a significant number of men. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.