The more blind a woman is in love, the more she “falls off the wagon”. You pay a lot for him, he not only did not feel, but also make efforts to stay away from you. Although love has exclusivity and exclusivity, but does not mean you have to tightly bind him around. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Some women, once in love, can be a bit blind. Start racking your brains for each other, always think about each other, think about each other, and even do a lot of things for each other. You think this is good for him, think this is happiness, but do not know, this will only give him to “spoil”, let their own love to fall.
1. He doesn’t answer the phone and still makes a strong call
Because you want him to worry He, a phone call can not be made, you call more than N consecutive calls, so crazy you may scare him. Even if you want to hear his voice at all times because of love, but men do not think so. For example, he is attending an important meeting, hosting a symposium within his department, watching football with his buddies …… If this time, the phone number you have to get through will only annoy him. He will not feel that you need him very much, but instead think that you are really idle, boring and troublesome a person it.
2. You do all of the living and eating
do his laundry The first thing you need to do is to make sure that you have a good idea of what you are doing. Perhaps the man said he needed a virtuous woman to take care of his life, but overworked for him, you have become his mother, ask who will have a feeling for the mother? The two people in love should respect each other like a guest and help each other, so the household chores and so on, in fact, the two people share together is the right choice.
3. Always pestering him to keep you company
Women are an easy group to The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers, so they can’t be without company and love, and in a relationship, they often suffer from fear that they are not good enough to keep their lovers, so they try to hold on to each other, like a Siamese twins usually best 24 hours a day. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
4, “Marrying him means waiting for him to raise you”
Some people marry a man with the idea that marrying him means letting him provide for them. “To let him provide for me, otherwise I married you what?” This idea is very unreliable, undesirable, not a long-term solution. A man feeds you for a while, not necessarily for a lifetime. If you become a parasite dependent on him, do you look like the pet he keeps? January does not give you living expenses, you immediately have to panic, he completely took control of you up; you do at home again tired, he will not think you have him hard, because you do not earn money; he can not think of you keep home lonely, for his hardships of raising children; you want to spend anything depends on whether he is happy, to give or not to give money. The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to the public.
5, always check the soul call
He and his friends The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. If he really wants to escape, you may not be useful when checking in, love is beautiful, but also to have dignity. The actual fact is that we all need to interact with people around us, we need to work, we need to have something other than love. Take a moment to think about it. Letting go is another way of holding on tightly. Do you receive it?
6. No matter how long he is late you will wait
If it is It’s understandable if it’s an anniversary for two people, but it’s a little surprising if it’s often the case that you wait no matter how long it takes. It’s a good idea to let the other person wait for you once in a while, or you’ll be perceived as a woman who can’t live without a boyfriend if she’s completely unsupported.
7, often hold the phone and wait for the other party to call
Some The girl is so nervous that she is afraid that her boyfriend will not be able to contact her, and even when she sleeps, she keeps the phone by her side in order to be the first to hear his call. The actual fact is that this is not good, not only for your own health, but also to make him feel that you can’t do without him. The boyfriend’s business is important, but someone who genuinely likes you won’t be mad at you for being late in answering the phone, and there’s absolutely no need to keep the phone by your side all day for fear of missing any of his calls.
8. Eliminate all outside invitations at his request
Did your friends around you sweat for you when they learned that you were behaving this way? For their boyfriends so obedient, a tight sense of bondage may overwhelm you. You should at least keep your own personal space in love, so as not to let love take over your whole. The “incarceration” type of relationship is not the normal way to develop a relationship, as you delete all male friends’ contact information and refuse all outside friends’ (even if they are just girlfriends) invitations.
9. You’re there for him 24/7
His At the drop of a hat, you’re on call, and you’re available for anything that concerns him. The man for too easy to get their hands on things often do not know the meaning of the word “cherish”, more will ignore your feelings, because you yourself may have neglected themselves, eyes are his existence, you still expect others care about you? Such you, may not cause him to pay attention to. Not to say that men are bitches, replaced by women, or any person, for the things that are at hand, often do not feel precious. It’s just bad human nature.
10. He hasn’t given you any gifts, but you’ve gone to all the trouble for his
While love has nothing to do with money, there is still some disillusionment with men who are always asking and not giving. It’s always you who gives all the time, making people think that your relationship is out of balance. If you don’t want to give people that impression, then it’s better to have give and take. If your boyfriend really hasn’t given you anything, you may want to knock him sideways and try to give him a heads up, which can also add a lot of interest.
How women should fall in love gracefully
Men can’t be spoiled. The more they are spoiled, the more they become jerks! Nowadays, men, pity is already a rare virtue, it is difficult to say that there is no relationship with those women who take the initiative. The best and most effective way to trap them is to leave them as they are, so that he is always uncertain about you.
A man really can’t be spoiled, a spoiled is bad, worse than a spoiled woman. Women are spoiled at most a little capricious, while men are spoiled are prone to lose their sense of responsibility, will lose patience and courage for the active emotions and body, more and more utilitarian and practical mentality towards love, think women are like computers, have one, better to upgrade in the future with a better one.
For the lover, the better you treat him, the higher his expectations are, expecting you to treat him better . When a man takes your care for you for granted, everything you do will not move him; and once you do worse than usual, even a little, he will be disgusted with you. So it is said that a man eventually become bad, often by a woman spoiled. The fact is, the better you are to him, the more he will appreciate you, but in fact, the better you are to him, the more he will take it for granted that you love him.
Sometimes, when a woman is a little hard-hearted, a man will be gentle instead. Don’t be too good to him during the day, don’t be too bad to him, just plain; only at the critical moment, give him so little surprise, let him feel that you have so little different to him, he will love you more. Of course, you can even sometimes leave him alone, sometimes let him eat a little jealousy. The first thing you need to do is to make sure that you have a good idea of what you are doing.