If you are ambivalent about a person and want to choose him, go out on a trip with him, because it is a very emotional test for two people to travel to a place that is unfamiliar to each other. On the road, in an unfamiliar place, he will remove the mask in the city, the most real side of him to show you. You can get to know him very clearly in a short time, and you can tell from the details of the trip whether you are suited for life together.
If there are any unbreakable rules for human behavior in this world, this is one of them, according to Qian Zhongshu. The real-life trips are always a test for both parties in a relationship: for couples who haven’t had the benefit of salt and vinegar, the question of whether the toilet seat should be flipped up or down is often magnified as “do you and I have the right world view” when traveling.
“Disagreements on travel issues”
First of all, it’s about the division of labor on the trip. If it’s the former, it’s worth a big fight, from picking a destination to booking a hotel to “should you bring this trench coat”, and if it’s the latter, the unfortunate thing is that it will probably never happen because no one bought the tickets, thus avoiding more travel problems.
Second, travel is a big test of habits. Usually, it may just be a difference in each other’s cold and hot constitution and quarrel over how many degrees to turn on the air conditioner, while in travel, whether one should use the hotel shampoo, whether dirty clothes should be washed off on the same day or brought home, and even whether one can eat garlic, all rise to a philosophical height.” Don’t you think roasted garlic has the aroma of basil?” — At this point you repent that this man, who is usually cool with consuming large loin, is really not on the same page as you.
“The Traveling Monster”
The following monsters can jump out at you at any time during a trip, making it more difficult for fellow travelers to travel together in friendship and harmony.
1.Early risers
It may not matter if you can’t get up early in the morning, but it’s not a problem when you can’t get up early when you’re traveling. The inability to get up early when traveling often has the consequence of missing out on limited local delicacies, not seeing the sunrise, and turning what would have been a day trip into a half day. If in a tropical country, this also means you have to go out at the hottest time of the day, no breakfast tummy is not ready for lunch, eat any food has a feeling of opening the wrong way …… this time the pace of the peer is particularly precious, together at 2 pm wake up leisurely, eat a late lunch, and then hand in hand The sunset is actually quite wonderful, isn’t it?
2, the dumb spots
called “The result is all man-made rocks, countless hills to walk the scenery is like the park of the county where you are, ready to wander in the bright spring light of the results of the heavy rain did not see anything, spend hundreds of admission money 15 minutes to visit the end without any highlights – – clearly is the front page reveal, but the first page reveal. -Clearly is the home page to reveal, but is said to be the focus of the larger picture, the dumb attractions are most likely to trigger peers between “I said not to come here! , “Why didn’t you say so earlier!” , “Who let you do not care!” The most important thing is that it is not only a good way to get the most out of your trip, but also a good way to get the most out of your trip.
3, the difference in perception between men and women
From the beginning of the strategy, women The women are going through the ordeal: “Let’s go to country A? No, it’s rainy season there these days. I’ll go to B, but the price is not right. I’d rather try country C, which no friend has ever been to, but what if it’s not fun? …… Forget it, I’d rather go to country B!” Then …… booked a trip to country D. So, a man who can help women make decisions and take all the responsibility and consequences without complaint is great.
4. Poor Travel
If many of life’s difficulties come from being If many of life’s difficulties come from being poor, then poor travel will exemplify this idea. When you come to Southeast Asia, the preferred destination of the poor, you spend a lot of money to buy some sea melon seeds, razor clams and dead eastern star grouper and end up with a bad stomach, you stay in a $50-a-night hostel because you can’t stand the snoring of the American guy on the top bunk and stay up all night, you take a bus and get lost in a tough suburb because you can’t read the local language… If one of your companions can’t stand the pain, you will If one of the companions can’t stand the pain, an amazing contradiction will break out – “Oh, you’re too delicate!” and “What’s the point of all this suffering! Ah!”
5. Spending habits
It’s hard to have a moment like a trip where every minute counts. The moment you spend money every minute, so spending habits are an important factor in testing fellow travelers, sleeping in a hostel or a fast hotel? The first thing you need to do is to eat at a roadside stall or must go to a restaurant? In ShoppingMall for an hour or 3 days? Are you willing to go to a casino? Willing to spend a month’s salary to learn 3 days of cooking? The first time I saw this, I was amazed to find that people were divided into many groups by their own spending habits.
6. Raiders
There are two kinds of guides, the old ones like LonelyPlanet, which include stores that have become expensive and difficult to eat because they have been sought after by countless travelers over the years, and the UGC on major websites and apps. The first thing you need to know is whether you and the person writing the guide have the same taste interests. In addition, it is clear that other people are just blind to find food and fun at random, you have to copy the route, will also add a lot of travel, right? The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
7. Worldview
Traveling in small means. A big booklet in the heart of every attraction stamped attractions control, and a person who likes to lie in the courtyard of the hotel and chat with people to casually experience the people’s feelings of the difference may be fundamental, a person who likes outdoor projects, and a person who likes to soak in the hot springs and look at the stars is also difficult to live together, because we have a different definition of the beauty of life. For example, you are ecstatic over the good fortune of buying a pair of sunglasses that can set off your face small and sharp at a night market in a foreign country, and your partner tells you with disgust that these glasses are only worn by Lo when he dances.