Breakups often bring frustration and loneliness to women, and if you don’t want to make the same mistakes again, you need to think hard about what went wrong in the relationship. But in reality, many women will use venting, self-loathing and even revenge to heal their love wounds. These are 15 things not to do after a breakup!
1. Change your relationship status on social media immediately
Make sure the relationship is really over before you change it.
2. Go on a trip right away
May as well delay for a few months when You can enjoy the trip more when your emotional wounds have been healed and you are more emotionally stable.
3. Go around saying bad things about your ex
Don’t go around spreading These negative comments may embarrass you in the future.
4. Become a fitness freak
The only reason to spend 4 hours a day at the gym for the sole reason that you have a personal trainer. Nothing else is worth it.
5. Spend big to blow off steam
When you get the bill at the end of the month bill at the end of the month you’re sure to regret it.
6. Jealous of happy friends around you
Many unhappy
Many unhappy people are not necessarily jealous of their happy friends, but sometimes they have the thought, “Why can’t I have this life?” The thought of “Why can’t I have this life? Anyone wants love, happiness, and passion in their life, and if you keep a positive attitude, these will be yours someday.
7. Stuck at home and not going out
After a breakup, never Stay at home and “isolate” yourself from people who care about you. Take the advice of all your friends who invite you out!
8. Go on a date with Mr. Wrong
You don’t have to go out with the guy who shows interest in you the first time you meet him. Please choose your dates more carefully.
9. Refuse to forget
Many women after a breakup are Do you really need to keep stalking your ex’s life when you’re obsessively looking for “clues” on his social media?
10, Dating out of revenge
If you’re dating a friend of your ex or a man who could potentially be a friend of your ex, it won’t help the relationship that’s gone.
11. Blame others
Rather than acknowledging that the relationship ended in failure, blaming others is often more important than admitting that the relationship ended in failure. It’s often much easier to blame someone else than to admit that the relationship ended in failure. But don’t forget that some of the hurt is still yours to bear.
12. Don’t give yourself time to heal
Don’t rush to fill an old relationship with A new relationship to fill an old wound, get out there and be with friends and you will be much happier.
13. Discuss your problems with others non-stop
Please Respect other people’s time and don’t get hung up on the breakup.
14. Let yourself gorge
Think food will help you sweep away your grief? Don’t dream!
15. Talk to your ex about your kids
If you break up with your spouse break up, don’t try to take the child to you; involving the child in it will only cause him more pain and bring more problems.