Finding a rich and handsome man to be with is the dream of many women. When there is this opportunity in front of you, what will you use to grab him? The most important thing to know is that a rich man is not the same as a normal man, and it takes skill to catch their heart.
How to catch the heart of a rich man
What kind of man is a rich man? What kind of man is a rich and handsome man? The term “tall, rich, and handsome” is a new Internet term that has recently emerged in major forums and twitter, corresponding to “short, poor, and short” and “loser”. It describes a man’s perfection in body, wealth and appearance. This kind of man tends to win the hearts of many women and succeed in relationships and marriages.
First of all, it is important to emphasize that “rich and handsome” is just a label, and there are all kinds of men among the rich and handsome. The first thing you need to do is to find a label to rationalize your negative thoughts, and it is recommended that you don’t mythologize or stigmatize the rich.
If you’re lucky enough to be with a high roller, here are some tips you might want to keep in mind about being in a relationship with a high roller:
1. The inside is more important than the outside
High-wealthy men pay more attention to each other’s inside and personality charm than ordinary men. Why? Because in his surroundings, there must be many women with outstanding external appearance, why should he choose you? In the face of time, outer appearance is devalued, only when combined with inner, it appreciates.
We often see such combinations, where the wife of a rich and handsome man is ordinary looking, but her character is not made; while an ordinary man will find a goddess-looking wife and accommodate her in every way. Because of the high wealthy handsome on the beauty has been used to see, the real personality charm of the talent will attract him. In biological psychology there is this explanation, since ancient times, people tend to follow people with personality and self-confidence and choose him as a leader, not because of good looks. There are also many women who want to use selfless giving to tether a high-flyer are also wrong. It is certainly right to be good to others, but if you lose yourself in the name of love because you only know how to be good to others, you cannot impress each other without personality and charm.
2. Say meaningful things to him
In our opinion The fact is that the rich and famous must be often praised and given a halo, and should not care much about the “good things” people say about them. In fact, the rich and handsome than the average person needs more love and affirmation, because most of his affirmation are people for his external conditions of praise, but after listening to such words of praise is not touched in the heart, he would like others to see his body other shining points, that is meaningful praise. For example, you can say you see him very seriously for the work in the struggle, you can praise him to do things very planning, etc.. It’s important to be really “seen” by people who don’t want to be a good person inside and out.
3. It doesn’t matter if you don’t have the right family
The right family The family background is a better match in terms of marriage conditions, but this is not the key factor that affects the smoothness of the relationship, we need to see the possible resistance behind the “wrong family”. This resistance is mostly from the parents, if not handled well will cause conflict with the parents or even hostility, it is difficult to succeed in love. On the one hand, the happiness of a relationship that is not blessed by the family will be reduced; on the other hand, from a psychological point of view, a person who can not even appease their parents, usually do not know how to solve the problems in the relationship, it is not easy to achieve happiness. The first thing you need to do is to consider whether you have the ability to deal with the resistance without getting into trouble with your parents, so you can be together if you love two people who have different conditions.
4. Confidence is a must when you are with him
With a better half The inferiority complex that comes from being with a superior significant other is, in psychological terms, an outward projection of the internal psychology of dissatisfaction with yourself, that deep down you don’t appreciate yourself enough. Why do you feel that you are “not good enough for him”? The first thing you need to do is to make sure that you have a good idea of what you are doing.
At this point, you should accept the external conditions that you can’t compare and look inward to improve those aspects of yourself that you can win over him, who is more motivated, who is more responsible, who is more brave, who is more loving? Let me give you an example, if I compare with Jay Chou singing, of course I will lose, but I told myself that in the study of psychology I am much better than him. I think it’s important not to compare the strengths of others to your weaknesses, but to find confidence by enhancing the strengths in yourself that others don’t have.
On the other hand, being unconfident in a relationship can be very damaging to each other. Because not being confident can lead to a lot of unnecessary jealous behavior, and this can be a big drain on the relationship. When there are difficulties, the one who may not be confident does not have the confidence to overcome them, and these can be fatal.
5. Use a learning mindset to fall in love with a high roller
Having a The rich and handsome who have a certain financial base usually know how to enjoy life and have more taste than ordinary guys. To fall in love with them, you don’t have to learn them to buy a lot of luxury goods, but to learn his life aesthetics, and then create beauty within their own conditions. And, after reaching a certain career height, the high rollers see things in a bigger picture and with a smaller focus. You can figure out their thinking logic by observing and learning what he is doing, which is also a way to improve your own ability to handle things.
If two people step into a marriage, you are only qualified to stand by his side and help. Take a step back, even if the two don’t have a destiny to go all the way, you’ll end up being a very distinguished woman.
6. At some point, keep things normal
There are such The situation, two people are married to a rich and handsome, one is very sweet the other is very jealous, in fact, it has nothing to do with whether their object is a rich and handsome, this is only through an external mirror reflects itself, the focus is on what kind of person you are. A good relationship is one in which you hold yourself to the same advice you would give to someone else. When you treat each other with a normal heart, with respect and love, in fact all men are the same.
Being with a high roller isn’t easy, it’s not just about being confident in yourself and having good looks. So, when you have the opportunity to be with a rich man, learn to be side by side with him so that two people may last oh.