Emotional experts point out that after a breakup, both couples will have a period of struggle in their minds, during which you may be able to get back together, or you may be strangers, the key is how you actually choose. If you want to catch happiness, you need to know the 4 tags of being in the breakup rebound period.
1. Wanting to reconnect with him, just wanting to be friends, but wavering a bit out of pride and not knowing what to do.
This is an all-too-obvious sign of breakup backlash, where in a superficial sense, out of self-protection, you turn your “missing him” into “just wanting to be friends. “The actual subconscious, you have most likely wish to renew the relationship with him, to learn more about his news trends, which is the real embodiment of your desire to get close to him again. In fact, this is completely human, there is no shame, so there is no need to feel embarrassed about it! If there is still hope between you, and the opportunity can be created artificially, it is possible to really miss the opportunity not to take the initiative to contact him generously, to give yourself and him a chance to start over!
2. Want to spend time with the opposite sex, and the opposite sex that is similar to him.
Don’t deny it so easily, many people do this after a breakup. Suddenly from the symbiotic state of two people living together into a single person to spend the whole day, more or less psychologically uncomfortable. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
If you were to look at yourself from the sidelines at this point, would you say, “This is exactly the kind of guy you can’t get rid of! So, now that you have such a clear understanding of yourself, you don’t need me to tell you what to do next!
3. Gradually doubt your decision to break up ……
This is another unspoken breakup rebound tag! You can imagine the initial time after the breakup, you may feel free and happy, from now on to dominate their own happy life! The future is full of all sorts of wonderful visions. But it didn’t take long for you to get bored with your life alone and start to gradually relive the warm times you spent with him in your memories, although there was bitterness and joy, laughter and tears, but you understood each other openly and your hearts were as full and rich as your lives ……
You consciously or unconsciously start to slowly doubt your decision to break up in the first place. The first thing you need to do is to get back into the relationship and continue as a symbiotic duo. After this test, I believe you have a better understanding of each other, but also more cherished after the separation of the reunion, suffering always brings wisdom and enlightenment. The fact that you can finally reconnect is also a serious explanation to each other!
4. Always mention him to your friends and girlfriends at a rate of once every 30 minutes.
This again reveals your true inner self without a doubt and without any new ideas. If it’s not to report to your bestie, spit, express your displeasure with him and expose his bad habits, then honey, don’t hesitate to listen to your inner voice and keep letting this love go.