It is often said that a small goodbye is better than a new marriage. But if the couple doesn’t understand each other’s work, or doesn’t maintain communication, this brief little goodbye could be the trigger for you to separate from him, so how can you maintain a good marriage?
The phrase “distance makes beauty” is too empty, too flashy to be true. From a realistic point of view, “distance is there, beauty is gone” is more apt. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to the market.
A Marriage Divided Cannot Be Tested
Many couples
Many couples underestimate the power of distance to separate, always thinking that “a little goodbye is better than a new marriage,” but it turns out that “a little goodbye” doesn’t bring sweeter feelings than a new marriage, but cuts a deep scar on the marriage.
Call every day, contact every day, it is easy to say, when put into practice, there will be a variety of disadvantages, communication will be obstacles. For example, the husband is in a foreign country, everything needs to be adapted, time and energy are limited, plus the kind of reluctance in a man’s bones to complain of misery plays a role, resulting in him not fulfilling the original agreement.
And the wife can’t appreciate the various disadvantages that her husband encounters in another country, and she only listens to his words of good news but not bad, so she naturally misunderstands her husband and is suspicious of him. The most important line of trust between a couple living apart at this time is gradually beginning to “collapse”, and further quarrels indicate that the two have miscommunication.
Disagreements between couples under one roof are relatively easy to resolve, while disagreements between separated couples can be further exacerbated by not seeing each other and having a lowered sense of trust. The husband will think that he is suffering over here for the sake of his family, but he is not understood and has to be suspected, he will feel aggrieved.
The wife will think that she is frustrated and disappointed that she is struggling at home while her husband is over there getting away with it. At this time, both people want to find a relationship around them, and the idea of an extramarital relationship flashes in the minds of both parties.
The cheating of separated couples may be somehow inevitable
Couples who are separated are largely choosing to make a temporary aliyah in order to earn money and create better material conditions. But many couples who live apart are not divorced because of money, because they can’t stand the test of affection. The first thing you need to do is to make sure that you have a good idea of what you want to do.
Human psychological instinct is to avoid harm. When the lover is not around to love and understand their pain, the communication between the two sides is impaired, and the intervention of a third party will seem like a natural step. Morality and law, in front of the fragile and changeable human nature will be useless. Many couples who live apart end up with one of them cheating, or both of them cheating.