If a woman says she’s never scrolled through her current boyfriend’s ex, or her ex’s current girlfriend’s social media, she’s lying! One of the great things about social media is that you can browse anyone you want to get to know, look up her/his comments at will, and it doesn’t leave any trace unless you shake your hand and click like ……
Grab The opportunity to get to know an ex and his current girlfriend or current ex-girlfriend is a deadly temptation for women, and many of them can’t help but get to know each other. According to a study conducted by a foreign university, nearly 90% of women aged 18-35 have gone through their ex’s social media, and 80% of them have even looked up their ex’s current girlfriend. The survey also concluded that the more women go through their exes’ social media, the less they are able to release their negative emotions.
We all have a gossipy heart
Almost everyone The best part is that her profile is very complete, and then you go through her statuses one by one like a treasure hunt, trying to connect the dots between what’s happening in her every day. Then you start comparing yourself to her: whose nose is prettier, whose eyes are bigger, whose lips are sexier, whose skin is in better shape, who is younger, who is better dressed, and so on and so forth.
I bet you’d despise the photo of her pretending to be a real person, or laugh out loud at some of her comical accompanying pictures and sentences. I believe that many women use this activity as a way to pass time when they are alone in their rooms, no mistake, right?
The irony is that once you start browsing the other person’s social media and start going through their life – to put it another way – the good life she describes to the outside world about herself, you start to You hate this person, and the comparisons between you and her are endless.
Why do we all hate our ex’s current or current ex’s?
While most women boast of living a life of “self,” the exception is that they always cite what they’ve experienced with their partner as a bragging point. The exception is that they always use what they experienced with their partner as a bragging point. The hate of an ex’s current partner or a current ex’s current partner is due to the fact that their former partner, or current partner, has gone through the same thing with another her, and this hate is purely an instinctive human ancestral reaction. So, the hatred between the ex and the current one is actually an instinct?
Human behavior researcher Patrick Wanis explains this: women have always liked to compare their attractiveness to other women, so they are always comparing themselves to women with whom they have been involved. The primitive human behavior suggests that the primitive female instinct is to nurse, to take care of children and husbands and to confront the person who broke up their family, which explains why we hate the ex’s current or current ex so much – because they broke up their partner’s relationship.
They are actually a mirror of us
After you righteous anger browsing her social media, maybe she’s browsing yours. You’re peeking into each other’s lives, perhaps hating each other, but not crossing paths. Let go of the bad feelings, and maybe you’ll be surprised to find that she actually has a lot of similarities to you.
It’s undeniable to you that the woman he once fell in love with was actually a nice woman, and she became your current ex or your ex’s current because she had certain similarities to you that attracted this man, assuming you crossed paths The reason why she can be your current ex or ex’s current is because she and you have some similarities that attract this man, assuming you cross paths, and possibly become friends with each other.
What I’m saying: There’s a Cantonese song called: “Why do women have to be hard on women? The first time I saw a woman, I was a little bit of a pervert.