There are some lies women have to tell in order to handle their relationship with him. Here are 9 lies that women should all quietly know and, keep in mind.
One: I won’t let you change anything
We all want
We all hope that the man we fall in love with has a well-developed muscle like Schwarzenegger, a handsome face like Louis Koo, and poise like Chow Yun Fat, but to say so would undoubtedly make him sad and lamentable and ashamed of himself.
Tell him you like his hairy beer belly because it makes you feel warm like spring in winter. Tell him you like to hear him sound like a big grizzly bear at night so you feel safe. One day if he is out of town and you can’t hear him sounding hearty at night, you will lose sleep like a general who has been in war for a long time because you can’t hear the guns.
If you love him, tell him that you appreciate everything about him, and that his flaws are what make him tick. It’s him you love, and he doesn’t have to need to change in order to be married to you.
II: I love your friends
His foxy friends The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. These stinky men you don’t like to see, but it is important to him. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
So what do you do? Say you don’t like them? He will think that you are picky, that you don’t give him face, that you don’t share his friendship and righteousness. So, no matter how upset you are in your heart, don’t say it, saying it hurts his face and his feelings.
So if you have to have a midnight snack with those stinky guys, learn to like them, or at least pretend to like them. Then, slowly eat up his time with your schedule and quietly reduce his “friendly visits” with his friends and foxes. If he suddenly realizes one day that it’s been a while since we’ve met, you can smile and say, “Yeah, I really miss them.
Three: I’m willing to help you clean up the mess
The biggest thing about men is that they are lazy. characteristic is laziness, the biggest characteristic of men’s homes is chaos. Look at the ancient Chinese legend that men always want a little fairy to come down from the sky to clean their house and cook for them.
So, with a man who is just starting to build a relationship, be sure to show your consideration by acting like you know what you’re doing and saying, “Let me help you clean up.” Then gladly help him clean up the messy dishes and act like you really like housework.
This way men tend to have the warmth of family and miss you more when you’re not around. Of course, such good times don’t have to last long, and after his house is refreshed and he starts to rely on you, it’s not too late for you to slowly train him to do the labor.
Four: I love your home
If you’re a very lucky woman , probably you will see friendly eyes when you visit his parents at home. But generally speaking, when you step into his home with trepidation, you will first see the hostility in his mother’s eyes, as if you are a love rival who has killed your door, and your brash boyfriend knows nothing about it. He also foolishly thinks that you love him and his mother loves him, so you and his mother can love each other.
Don’t think you can explain this profound question to him. If he asks, tell him honestly that you like spending time with his family. If you say you don’t like it, it’s too likely to hurt his feelings.
Women who have had many years of experience as daughters-in-law conclude that being friendly to his family translates into action: see less and give more gifts. Tell him you love the people in his family, never avoid conflicts between you over family members, and target your meetings to birthdays or holidays.
Five: I love sports
Men are crazy about sports in a way we He’s always watching the game on TV as soon as he gets off work. He is always glued to the TV game as soon as he gets off work, and grabs the Football Gazette, New Sports, as soon as he gets into bed and reads it with a fervor. He watched the Serie A (soccer league) to watch the Bundesliga, watched the Bundesliga to watch La Liga, then went into the NBA round robin to watch Jordan to watch Yao Ming.
If you tell him you like sports too and sit down to watch soccer with him, you’ll be able to kill his world quickly. If the day comes when you can’t stand the idea of him looking at soccer magazines every day without seeing you, you can say to him, “I love sports, and I especially love playing sports with you.”
Next you take his hand and go jogging in the park, drag him to the rivers and lakes for a swim, and look to watch the sunset on the way. The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to the market.
Six: You’re right
Your boyfriend is a standout, but always The most important thing is that your boyfriend is a good person. The most important thing is that you have to be able to talk to him, and he will not SHUTUP if you are above him.
He will suddenly raise the volume on the road and fight you over the acting level of a character in a movie, and you won’t want to fuss with him over some harmless issue.
At this point, it’s obviously not wise to raise your voice and go toe-to-toe with him, you need to give the man some face and coax him to “you’re right, that makes sense.” The company’s main goal is to make sure that the company’s products and services are available to the public.
Wise men say that men are the head, women are the neck, and the neck will determine the direction of rotation of the head. Men always think they know everything, control everything, but the real actual control is the woman, the woman can always manipulate the whole situation without moving. So, don’t bother with him.
Seven, I don’t mind if you look at other women
When the male eye stare straight at the redheaded girl in the supermarket, your anger rises to the surface and evil is born. Even though you don’t have the color of a sunken fish or the look of a closed moon, you want your boyfriend’s eyes to always be honestly watching over you, from one to the other.
Once your boyfriend’s eyes are “smuggled in,” you want to use your palm to knock your potential rival out of the way, or use your star-sucking technique to keep your boyfriend’s eyes firmly within an N-square-centimeter radius of you. The best way to do this is to tell the lie that you don’t mind if you look at other women, and then find a chance to suggest to him that he should not do to others what he does not want.
If he still doesn’t seem to get it, make an exaggerated spectator gesture when you’re with him, scanning for passing dudes 24/7. He’ll tighten up when he senses some jealousy.
Eight: I don’t care how much silver you have
There are a lot of teenagers in the world right now There are a lot of young men with a lot of money in their pockets, but your boyfriend is now just a shy working man in a pocket. You fall in love with him, not because of his bankbook, but because of him in his own right.
Because he’s healthy, hard-working, funny, understanding yet faithful and reliable. You choose him because you think he is a potential stock, he will be rich and he will make the rest of your life a win-win life in both material and spiritual civilization.
Yes, that’s what you want. The company’s main goal is to provide you with the best possible service to your customers. At the moment, you have to make up a beautiful lie anyway: “I really don’t mind how much silver you have.”
Nine: Don’t worry honey, it happens to everyone
Do you lie? Actually, a good lie is needed once in a while.MMs! Do you want to be a happy little woman? Do you want your him to love you more? That these small lies are essential oh. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on some of these lies. Collect it and keep it secretly. I believe he will be charmed by you, yo!