Once a woman touches love, she can’t help but fall into it – for her, love is everything. The woman in love whose thinking, language and action are in a disorderly state, saying that such a woman’s IQ is zero, is definitely not too much. The women in love may want to learn from the insights of the generation of talented women Eileen Chang for love, learn how not to lose their IQ in love.
1. Love is not a refuge; if you want to go in for refuge, you will be driven out.
2. Love that does not last a lifetime is just a stopover on a long journey, no matter how long you stay, you always have to leave for another flight.
3. Even if the man in front of you, a thousand good, ten thousand good, everywhere is the advantage, he does not love you, this shortcoming, you can never change.
4. Dressing up beautifully and wearing expensive clothes is just a front, and the veneer made of kindness is the real beauty.
5. Face everything without humility and with grace.
6. Don’t presume to try to change anyone, because no one can change anyone, only, whether he is willing to change for you.
7. You can be vain, because, that is the nature of women, but, don’t let yourself become a tool to add to the vanity of others.
8. Girls need to love themselves, no matter how much of a blow you get, no matter how sad the situation you encounter is, degraded by reason, is also degraded; the less you love yourself, the more no one loves you.
9. Try to be a graceful woman, never act, because a woman who acts, not only women hate, but men hate even more.
10. Don’t ask all day long, do you love me? When you ask, he doesn’t love you.
11. A brave woman is always more beautiful than a cowardly woman. If, however, your lover does not love you, I advise you to be brave and separate, better than, cowardly and entangled.
12. A woman who is good at compromise is very valuable. But a woman who is only good at compromise is cheap.
13. Sometimes don’t be too calculating, men are a bit thick-headed, forgetting one thing doesn’t mean he doesn’t love you, don’t scare yourself.
14. Because of love, so compassionate; because of understanding, so forgiving.
15. I want you to know that there is always someone waiting for you in this world, no matter when, no matter where, anyway, you know that there is always such a person.
16. Understand the truth that men can easily like a person, but will not easily fall in love with a person.
17. You should bring an umbrella if you know it’s going to rain, and please don’t start if you know it won’t work out!
18. Life is like a ball, the person who taught you the initial steps may not be able to walk you to the end of the dance.