A philandering man is not desirable, we all know that. How can you tell if a man is a philanderer? Nowadays men are so cunning that it takes some special skills to see it. If you consider yourself to be silly and sweet and like to listen to follow men’s opinions, then please read the following with caution.
Gender equality makes each other happier
Studies from Cornell University Research from Cornell University shows that an equal relationship between the sexes makes both partners happier (and has a better sex life). You can rest assured that just because your boyfriend isn’t afraid to be a progressive doesn’t mean he has to make sacrifices like being labeled a guy (which I think is cute, of course). Feminists can be powerful men (like Ron Wwanson in parksandrecreation, who is powerful and caring), urban men (like Schmidt in Jesse’s Arrival), or guys who are a little goofy (like Phil in Modern Family). Anyone can be a feminist, as long as he’s your type and has been well coached by you.
Wanting a feminist boyfriend doesn’t mean you have to ask every guy if he’s a feminist, but if he answers, “Feminists are just super dumb,” when he hears about feminist views, that’s a scumbag. Stupid”, it’s better to say goodbye to this kind of scum before it’s too late!
So asking him if he’s a feminist is the best way to get rid of scum.
Refusing to acknowledge feminism = he’s a scumbag
Some scumbags Some scumbags who spout off on Facebook that girls should only be in the kitchen, some scumbags who think girls can’t even fix sewers, and guys who comment that girls can’t be ESPN speakers? Don’t ever date guys like that.
Seriously, gotta suggest that you better make sure your boyfriend is as awesome as a feminist so that he’s worth your energy. Feminism is not a complicated concept that is hard to get. Just ask him if he acknowledges that there is a double standard in society and that there are professional inequalities between the sexes. Feminists want girls to be in the driver’s seat when making decisions. Men can also be in positions to entertain and serve the public. In general, feminism is a doctrine of equality.
So maybe your boyfriend says he’s not a feminist just because he doesn’t understand what feminism means. Maybe his boyfriend associates feminism with the label of hating men. You owe it to him to understand that the “label” is a sludge thrown on feminism by misogynists.
If your boyfriend doesn’t understand what feminism really is, show him some books about it. If he’s not willing to devote an entire book to it, you can suggest that he get to know some of the commentators who often talk about feminism: AzizAnsari, Joseph Gordon-Levitt, Amy Poehler, and feminist Ryan Gosling. if he still doesn’t understand feminism, easily dump him.
A boyfriend who refuses to acknowledge the basic principles of feminism is not going to stand by you when you complain that no one listens to you at work. In contrast, a feminist guy will share some of the work with you, and they will concentrate on cooking or cleaning. They’re happy to be full-time dads if you think you have to focus on work, and of course, they’re not pussies.
Determining if a man is a womanizer by the details
Women The most fearful thing is not that a man is ugly, or that a man is not capable, but that he is philandering and unfaithful. A man even if he can make money, and then behave, if he betrayed you, then inevitably you will get nothing, so women expect to find a good man who is devoted to them.
One, frequent love letters = immersed in self
In the phone more popular today, those who rely on writing love letters to convey their feelings probably do so because the person in question views it as very important. No matter what he writes on the letter, he is trying to convey the message “I am serious about you”. Usually, the man who likes to write love letters, rather than say he is passionate, rather than say he is a delicate feelings, more deliberate male, so will not be able to express the meaning of words into words to convey. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Because writing a letter to the other person can easily become an act of asking for a direct price from the other person, and then indulging in letters to solve the bitterness in the heart. To the extreme, it will not be interested in the real other person, but obsessed with self-imagined fantasy. The most important thing is that you can’t be too sure of what you’re doing.
Two, men who are too rich have the habit of having three wives and four concubines
Women always want their significant other to be handsome, smart, healthy, kind-hearted, rich and infatuated. In fact, there are few such perfect men in the world. So, women have to downgrade to the level of hope to marry a rich man. But what they miss is that being rich is not the same as being happy.
Rich men are usually flirtatious and like to get into trouble. And women are most intolerant of their husbands having an affair. They are married and maintain their families in order to have a nest that is both safe and warm. In the end, people and money are empty, which is tragic.
Three, the love prodigal son is not desirable
The prodigal son type of man, there are The man of the hour is a man of the hour. The first thing you need to do is to take a walk on the beach when you don’t like the action, or take you to a concert when you don’t like to see a popular movie, and so on and so forth, so you can’t help but like him from the bottom of your heart.
But this type of man has a fatal weakness in love, and that is his aversion to the old. He likes to constantly pursue excitement, otherwise he will suffocate. Therefore, this kind of man can easily hurt women and is not worth deliberately pursuing.
Fourth, curious men should be careful
Usually men are more curious about unknown or brand new things, and are not as easily upset as women when faced with them. Instead, they tend to go on active explorations, wanting to understand what it’s really about.
To take it to the extreme, men go to dance clubs and restaurants for the thrill of it. And among the men, the people who have a strong interest in various novelties, in terms of hobbies more extensive than ordinary people. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
The above methods are only relative, remember not to apply them. The first thing you need to do is to find out if the person you’re with is serious or not, and I’m sure you’ll find the answer if you feel it with your heart.