Women love to take care of their men like sons, without fail. What about men? At first they are touched, then they take it for granted. Finally? Maybe it will be hand in hand, maybe it will be separated halfway. You give everything to him, think only this is love, so, right? When the junior appeared, the stick head a drink to tell you, love the long road, it seems that there is always such a rotten man, let the woman grow. From then on it will be clear which feeling of love is real and reliable.
Does this seem like déjà vu?
The man started his own advertising agency, and at first it was tough, he couldn’t afford to hire anyone and had to do everything himself. The girl is pulling business and working as an artist and secretary, working hard but without pay, and going home to cook and do housework. Her friends don’t like her boyfriend, saying that he is using her, using his girlfriend as a free maid and cheap laborer, taking too much advantage of her and giving nothing himself.
The girl, however, said, “It’s only when you’re in trouble that you see true love, and he’s busy too. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
She thinks her friends keep badmouthing him just because they don’t know him and don’t feel the depth of their love for each other, and she still does it for him.
Then business started to pick up, and the company recruited many new employees one after another, so she could finally relax a bit. Then later, she found out about her boyfriend’s adulterous affair with a beautiful female secretary, and she moved out of his apartment in anger. She thought he would surely come to find her back and ask for her forgiveness, but he never called again.
Only give to him, but do not want his return, for a short time he will be grateful, but will still remember after the passage of time? If a man calls such a woman a ‘good woman’ and believes that your unconditional giving to him is sincere and genuine, then he is an extremely selfish person, even if he does not mean to use you.
If you are devoted to your partner when he has never given you care and love, or even appreciated what you have done, then you are not being cheap.
When we are young, we are all very innocent, neither able to read people nor to protect ourselves, more often than not, we are blinded by love, believing only in our own feelings, unable to distinguish between right and wrong, unable to see the experience of those who have come through, and unable to listen to the advice of onlookers.
When others warn to stop us, we think it’s just mercenary people who don’t know the truth, or even disillusioned people who are jealous of other people’s happiness, all thinking that their lives are different from others, that their boyfriends won’t be the same as others, and how could I have such poor eyesight.
True love first = abusive relationship?
What’s love without suffering? The actual fact is that there is a wide range of patients who are taking the cheap as true love, in fact, the majority of women in the clinic. The above sad case is just to demonstrate the widespread nature of the disease.
If you look closely, a good percentage of the friends around you who scream about true love being supreme and having to burn out once to get it right are patients. The most extreme among them is of course SM lovers. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Spiritual abuse is also a kind of, a person a hundred mock humiliation can not see you, but also obsessively follow him, others 10,000 green eyes than he a white eyes; someone was dumped 10,000 times still dead sex with back to the ex-boyfriend, he came back again and again to find you as a true love. Some people persist in posting money to men to spend, from paying back his credit card to give him money to do business, but also in the name of women’s liberation. Why should only men be able to support women? The first thing you need to do is to get the money together.
But vulgar me, I think it’s more of a crime to give a man money to spend than to let him fight. Unless you’re a diva with millions of dollars to spend on a commercial, it’s better to save some savings so that you can sit comfortably in a rocking chair in your old age and reminisce about the years when you were a bitch, err no, a sparkler.
Love is conditional, and even if there is unconditional love in the world, how long can it last?
Either you are exhausted from loving yourself, or you see the selfishness of the other person and are greatly disappointed, or he says thank you lightly and leaves without any fondness.
People should trust each other, and care and love should be mutual, but if only one party is working hard and giving, and the other party is enjoying without any return, it must not be true love.
Love two people mutually, this is love
Love is mutual The love is mutual, there is something to give and something to ask, and if you do not cherish yourself, others will not come to respect you. When he gets used to receiving what you give, everything becomes taken for granted, and what is too easy to get will not be cherished.
We all wonder, what is true love? Letting the other person have full freedom? To give everything for him? Or to demand something from him? Yes, and no. Because all of this is only half true.
Two people together, their personalities, their The habits of life have to rub off on each other. Therefore, it is important to be tolerant. The most important thing is that you have to be there for each other, especially when the other person is at a low point in their career, and your company and encouragement is a great motivation. At the same time, you have to have a bottom line, you can not give all the ego. When there is no more ego, how long can the other party love you? When they encounter conflicts with each other, they should fully communicate and respect each other’s bottom line. This is the only way to love each other well.
Because, this is mutual affection. Only when both the man and the woman give, will they cherish each other. If only one person gives, then he will not feel the taste of it. Love is romantic, beautiful, and at the same time, it contains a part of reality.
What is abusive love? It takes total dedication. Are you sure you want to be in love this much for the rest of your life? Most of the time, we are still in the dull days of the firewood, oil, salt and vinegar tea. Love and life need to support each other, in order to last. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you want to do.