The love of two people who love each other will be reflected in every moment. The most important thing is that you have to be able to do this. The first thing you need to do is to make sure that you have a good idea of what you are doing. For you, what are the moments when you feel happiest when you are with your significant other? Is it the small, unspoken gestures of everyday life, the warmth of a hand, a silly smile or his special habits? The San Francisco-based artist Nidhi Chanani captures these small but real moments of love shared with lovers in her work “Everyday Love”.
1. A sunny afternoon reading a book and drinking afternoon tea together
A cup of black tea, two chairs, just like that, holding their favorite book in their hands, in the warm afternoon, accompanied by the sun and loved ones, warm to the heart. Occasionally, tired of looking up and look around, tiny dust fluttering in the sun. The first thing you need to do is to look around and notice a gaze, that is your him smiling at you.
2. Someone is waiting for you after work
After the boss’s tossing and The moment you open the door, you have slippers ready, someone to take your bag and umbrella in your hand, and a warm hug. There is no warmer presence than this.
3.3. Play with each other on holidays
When you’ve been struggling to make ends meet, you’ve been working hard in your free time. struggling, going out in your free time and having someone with you by your side. Whether it is spitting or admiring, there is always someone to listen. At the same time, for his favorite scenery, you will also be fine experience. This feeling fills your heart.
4. Hugs from behind when you’re at a loss
In When things get tough, maybe he can’t help you out directly, but a hug from behind lets you know that he’ll always be there for you.
When helpless, it may be that direct help can immediately help you out of a jam. More often than not, we all have to think and work it out on our own, knowing that there is a hand nearby to give warmth at all times, and that confidence and patience can be restored at any time. All dilemmas can no longer trap you.
5. Go crazy in front of him
Going crazy here doesn’t mean to lose your temper with him. It’s about being able to let loose in front of him. In front of him, you do not need to wear a mask to socialize, you can show your true self. After you’re done venting, you’re the classy, generous woman in front of everyone again.
6. He dries your tears when you cry
It is said that women are water made. When you are aggrieved, tears are a kind of venting, at this time, you need a person to dry your tears for you. He will also comfort you, coax you, and make you break into tears.
7. One day you suddenly find a red rose on your desktop
It may not be a special day when you suddenly find a red rose on your bedside table at home, along with a note that says, Honey, I love you. At that moment, your feel as sweet as honey.
When you notice his ups and downs, you don’t ask questions, you just send him a cup of tea when he’s thirsty and a glass of milk/soy milk when he wakes up in the morning.
8. With him, your smile is always so bright
Life is inevitably stormy, and with him by your side, you keep smiling every day. Is it a giggle? Yes. The thought of being with him every day and being able to face life hand in hand gives you the confidence to face even the most difficult problems.
9. He is your constant support
No matter what happens, he will always be your best friend. He will always be your most reassuring place. After being wronged outside, misunderstood by others, or scolded, you can come back to his embrace for comfort.
10. Look forward to seeing the most beautiful scenery together
Like the things you like to share with him. Things to look forward to sharing with him. The story you love, the scenery you want to see, and the things you long for, you all want to tell him. Look forward to the good things together.
11. Watching the sunrise together in the middle of the night
He always knew you wanted to to see the sunrise over the sea, never had the chance. One weekend, he said he was in a bored mood and wanted to go for a drive. Didn’t want to, but drove to the beach and told you, let’s wait for the sunrise together. The moment you see that cheesy salted egg yolk, you feel that all the waiting and hard work was worth it.
12. The moment he cooks for you
He who doesn’t like to cook The new dishes you learn to share with you occasionally. Even though the cooking is not good, the two still eat it all together. Maybe you are not good at cooking, so that he can eat a healthy and nutritious meal every day, or go to a cooking class after work.
13. Laugh and share funny things throughout the day before bed
Every A couple needs to fully connect and communicate. A good way to do this is to share your daytime experiences with each other before bedtime. For example, those people and things that make you angry and chagrined, those oddities that make you cry and laugh, those moments that make you smile. By talking, you can also know what happened when you weren’t around him.
14. Ordinary you is not ordinary in his eyes
Your appearance may not be too outstanding, just clean. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you are looking for. The lover’s eyes, your inferiority and the envy of others in his eyes are self-seeking. The reason is that you are good enough and don’t need any change.
15. Happy together until old age
See gray hair still The elderly who hold hands together, no one can deny that this is love. Do so much, is not for such a result? The first thing you need to do is to be able to hold hands until you are old.
Making active love in a dull life
Those moments of fighting for love The moment of struggle certainly expresses the love of two people, these in the life of a little for each other is also love. The sweet words are love, no words to look at each other a smile is also love. Those lovey-dovey is love, these ordinary moments are also love. Maybe we can’t be as glamorous and perfect as the idols, and become the object of everyone’s envy, we can also keep our own rhythm and love under the weight of life. If we could do that, it would be a kind of perfection.
If life feels bland, why not make it work for yourself? Create some affection yourself, more sweetness. For example, appropriate flirtation. For example, learn from the TV; oh a very cultured man to a slender, noble temperament of the woman secretly send a glance or words, and occasionally play a trick with him. The only thing you need is a whistle, or a meaningful “Hi”, or an intimate gesture, and it becomes possible to achieve!
See how sweet it is? Not all love has to be sensational, plain and simple is also love each other. The intense feelings may not last long, these ordinary moments look faint and tasteless, but it is possible to have every day.